I'm not a hater of Christianity any more than you are a hater of Islam or Atheism. I realized that Christianity is just another man-made religion.
I did not choose punishment by disbelieving just as you did not choose a punishment for disbelieving Islam. It seems that Christians often assume they are not chosing some other religion's hell.
Guess what. If I'm choosing Christianity's Hell then you are choosing a Muslim one. But why would you choose to suffer for disobeying Allah? Answer that last question and you'll understand the atheist position in regards to Christianity.
Perhaps you are right about no frying in eternity, but you can't be sure of that. Historically, this is what the mainstream Christianity thaught and continues to teach even today. There are fringe positions of Universalism and a larger Anihilationism, but the majority Christians. believe that non-Christians will spend eternity in conscious torment.
Please understand that telling me that I don't want God/Christ is the same as telling me I don't want to have a relationship with a real Santa Claus.
Do you want a relationship with Santa? Or would you rather suffer eternally for disobeying and disappointing him? If you think these questions are nonsensical, then you are right. But these are the same questions and claims you are making in regards to Christianity.
You seem to hate Christianity. I get that not from words to the contrary but from your behavior. I'm not saying you chose punishment, I am saying you chose
your will and that has a natural consequence which will manifest in part today, and in full at your death.
I have no theological reason to believe that anyone will literally fry in hell. I can't rule out that anymore than I can rule out that it means literally being in a stir fry pan, with onions and carrots. Several people seem to be of the opinion that if you can't disprove something it means it is warranted to believe that thing...no, it's warranted to believe that thing if you have reason to believe that thing.
I agree, the majority of Christian believe in ECT, but that is incidental ECT, not voluntary. We are not allowed to discuss annihilationism.
Whether or not santa exists, you would have a response to him if he did. So there is no issue with speaking hypothetically. If God exists you either want your will to be done in regards to Him, or you want God's will to be done in regards to yourself. You don't want a relationship with God, and that is exactly what you will get in the end. God will leave you entirely. Your sickness cannot be overcome because it is perpetuated by your own desire to be apart from God. The fire is already around because you reject the only source of life, but you are still wet because God will not depart from you while you live. But when you die, He will depart and you will receive what you wished, and then the fire will take hold and consume you. Being fully apart from God
is the description of hell, your desire is literally to be in hell, because that is all hell is. In the end we each get exactly what we wanted, a life spent fully with God, and a life spent fully apart from God.