they need to have a conversation or read a thread about what universalism actually means.
To me it was the opposite when it came to certain doctrines. I saw some threads on a certain Christian board almost 20 years ago and it's that thread that actually got me into reading the "entire" bible for myself for the first time seeking only the truth no matter what that might be. It wasn't the actual thread that changed my mind, it was the Word of God. The seed was planted and then I sought it out for myself.
I had been taught many false doctrines including ECT my entire life up to that point. While I did drop those doctrines upon reading and studying the entire bible for myself, I do believe the LOF is the second death as in that's permanent. The soul is destroyed which coincides with Christ's teachings in Matthew 10:28 as well as the rest of the Bible that points out that the wicked will perish -turned to ashes. That's what I got out of all of the bible as a whole. I believe we are refined by fire through our lifetimes as pointed out in different verses but that is our physical life. And those verses point that out.
I also believe our Father is very long suffering which is why we are still here. There would be no point to his long suffering if all he has to do is throw us into the LOF. That's not biblical. It's his will that all would come to repentance. But that's why he's long suffering. But many UR's call that failure but salvation is open to all. So that's success. It's the individual that fails.
And it does state anyone that's not in the book of life will be thrown into the LOF which is the second death. We can't count the LOF as repentance. Change has to come from our hearts and minds, not the LOF. That's what faith and trust in Christ is all about. And faith and hope are for things unseen, not seen.
And we are taking away the power of the second death that Christ talks about if we think otherwise. The salvation is there for all but sadly not all will take it. Not to get too off base of your thread but I think threads should be for you to plant seeds but ultimately it should drive someone into the Word to seek out the truth for themselves. And believe me, if I had seen any kind of truth upon my studies I would have believed in UR. Because that's what drove me finally into reading the entire bible for the first time, I was seeking the truth and would accept that truth. And while I didn't see ECT, I didn't see UR either.
In the end we all have to decide for ourselves but it should be from the Word. -the entire Word.