As a Christian, I believe it is our responsibility to point the finger at ourselves.
well that's noble of you bro. but you have nothing to point at with yourself.
sure i disagree with the church's ruling. but one can't expect any church to just think the way i, they or anyone do when, especially such an systematic church as the Roman Catholic Church (that is not meant to be anti-Catholicism). it takes time, sometimes slowly for an institution to progress. we can disagree with many of the things, but you have nothing to point the finger at yourself with as a Christian.
the only fingers that should be pointed, in my opinion at least, is the rapist for creating a situation that:
1. put the church in a tough stance on what to rule on this doctor administering the law because his actions created the situation to where the girl had to seek the doctor out for the abortion, and also created a situation to where the girl felt like she had no other choice but abortion and regardless of where one stands with abortion, that's a terrible position to be put in.
2. put this doctor in the terrible position of having to administer the law regardless of what his church teaches. the doctor had to already know that if he went with this abortion, his actions would thus have consequences with his church.
don't point the finger at yourself when it is not the fault of your religion for what happened in this case. when two things happen that can be seen as travesty. your never going to get a good resolution with this type of situation. i'm a pro-choice person who thinks abortion is an extreme travesty in all the cases it is done with but i believe it is a sober reality that we need, and then to top it all off, this poor girl was raped. how in the world can we come to a good, moral, "holy, righteous" or whatever adjective one wants to call it type of resolution? even if the church wouldn't have excommunicated the doctor, what would that really mean for this horrible situation? absolutely nothing as far as i'm concerned. there's nothing ideal that can be brought from this situation.
i don't know if i'm cynical for saying this, but i'd rather mourn over the fact that the girl was raped, that an abortion was rightfully administered, with good and just cause because her right to reproduce was forcefully violated, taken forgranted and perverted for some sicko's desires, mourn with the doctor who was excommunicated as well as witnessing this whole ordeal, mourn with the church that had to make a ruling that while i disagree with it, a very hard ruling to make and at the same time and stand on the principals it has established itself to believe in, instead of thinking the church should have stood on some "ideal" idea.