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In the Parable of the Prodigal Son, the older brother was annoyed that his younger brother was welcomed back by his father. This seems to make some sense because after all he had been the dutiful son and it must have seemed that his loyalty meant nothing to his dad.
But it also feels that this bitterness must be wrong somehow. Can bitterness and envy ever be right? So is not the meaning that the older brother's reaction was wrong and that he should have wanted what his father wanted? His human wanted his son back no matter he had done so isn't the lesson for us that we should try to see salvation as God does, that He wants to save all His children and He does not have favourites? Kim Jong Un may favour his acolytes but God doesn't. He wants us all to live life in all it's fullness and so you'd think the last thing He wants is that we become envious and bitter like the older brother.
Team Hell seems to get a warm and fuzzy feeling from the thought "I'm special and that's why God is saving me". This is shown here on CF by the number of times the question "What's the point of being a Christian if everyone's saved?" is asked. Exclusivity seems to be an essential part of their faith.
But if we see things as God sees them, we are all His children and as the Good Shepherd He doesn't give up on any one of His lost sheep and acts eternally until they are found.
Instead of resenting our Father's feelings for the prodigals amongst us and feeling under-appreciated and sorry for ourselves should we not want what makes Him happy, rather than what makes us happy? We may be happy if our father kicks the prodigal into touch and disinherits him but shouldn't we try to get out of God's way and let Him be a loving Father to all His children? And stop trying to redefine Him as someone who would rather torture a prodigal rather than rescuing them. It's not about what we want but about what God wants.
But it also feels that this bitterness must be wrong somehow. Can bitterness and envy ever be right? So is not the meaning that the older brother's reaction was wrong and that he should have wanted what his father wanted? His human wanted his son back no matter he had done so isn't the lesson for us that we should try to see salvation as God does, that He wants to save all His children and He does not have favourites? Kim Jong Un may favour his acolytes but God doesn't. He wants us all to live life in all it's fullness and so you'd think the last thing He wants is that we become envious and bitter like the older brother.
Team Hell seems to get a warm and fuzzy feeling from the thought "I'm special and that's why God is saving me". This is shown here on CF by the number of times the question "What's the point of being a Christian if everyone's saved?" is asked. Exclusivity seems to be an essential part of their faith.
But if we see things as God sees them, we are all His children and as the Good Shepherd He doesn't give up on any one of His lost sheep and acts eternally until they are found.
Instead of resenting our Father's feelings for the prodigals amongst us and feeling under-appreciated and sorry for ourselves should we not want what makes Him happy, rather than what makes us happy? We may be happy if our father kicks the prodigal into touch and disinherits him but shouldn't we try to get out of God's way and let Him be a loving Father to all His children? And stop trying to redefine Him as someone who would rather torture a prodigal rather than rescuing them. It's not about what we want but about what God wants.