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Human Trafficking; Be part of the solution, not part of the problem

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Yeah, you don't make a lot of mistakes, except for few big ones! You got to be careful with those!

No worries, I understand you. I also make those huge mistakes I simply review my writings a lot so none of those bombs ever comes out (a least none that I'm aware of!^_^)

To really solve the problem of human trafficking, I can tell you one radical solution - redistribute wealth.

I'm not saying we go socialism. I'm simply saying, a one time global event we redistribute wealth and then resume capitalism. The Jews did this in the Old Testament.

Money is what really fuels the biggest evils in the world. It's probably very obvious why Jesus said, if you love money, you will hate God due to what the very essence of money stands for.

The slavery I've been through is fueled by the love of money.
well redistributing the wealth of those who support human trafficking would be the immediate solution. I am not sure, using socialism in a capitalistic world would work very well, just look at venezuella. Trafficking still happens there, even more now that economy fell.
 
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Except for sexual immorality: Jesus interpreted the meaning of the word uncleanness in the Mosaic Law, showing that it refers to sexual immorality, not just anything that might displease the husband. Therefore, divorce - and and the freedom to remarry without sin - is only permitted in the case of sexual immorality.

The ancient Greek word for sexual immorality in the Bible is porneia. It is a broad word, covering a wide span of sexual impropriety. One may be guilty of porneia without actually having consummated an act of adultery. "It must be admitted that the word porneia itself is very broad … Porneia covers the entire range of such sins … and should not be restricted unless the context requires it." (Carson)

I am not of this camp at the moment, but some people view that pornography is technically defined by the greek "porneia." Which involves any sexual immorality, including porn. And that divorce is allowed when a man engages in porneia, and commits sexual immorality with others in the form of fantasy. I don't know how I feel about it myself, but I was reading this in a divorce commentary on a passage and this came up. So anyway, thoughts?

Study Guide for Matthew 19 by David Guzik
 
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Five years ago when I had victory over porn it was because I was praying for it. Then God allowed me to read the book Pure Desire by Ted Roberts a former marine fighter pilot, he had a lot of tools into how to tackle it. I would read his book once a year, sometimes twice a year for the first few years, then eventually I only read it when I messed up. Then I didn't mess up anymore. That victory fealt so awesome, I am so very thankful to the Lord for that victory. I still am. Then he allowed me to become victorious over a sin I had since I was 9, self gratification. I was fasting and praying and God gave me victory over that as well, I messed up once last year, about six months ago. And I realized where I failed and what I did wrong that led up to that error, and once I corrected it, I have been free. But it's the power of the Gospel to save me that helped me through the end. That and simply asking in prayer for victory, and taking the step to read that first book.
 
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well redistributing the wealth of those who support human trafficking would be the immediate solution. I am not sure, using socialism in a capitalistic world would work very well, just look at venezuella. Trafficking still happens there, even more now that economy fell.

The pattern that correlates high crime rates and corruption is huge imbalance of power and wealth.

If it happens in a communist country, you can be sure to see a huge imbalance of wealth and power.

In countries that have least of such problem, you'll find very low crime rates.
 
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The pattern that correlates high crime rates and corruption is huge imbalance of power and wealth.

If it happens in a communist country, you can be sure to see a huge imbalance of wealth and power.

In countries that have least of such problem, you'll find very low crime rates.
sorry sir venezuela proves this theory is bunk.
 
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Some stuff I found on twitter, (excuse some of the political connotations, I am a moderate, BTW, but these are some good statistics into the porn problem.
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A secular article cites many scientific studies about the porn epidemic, and how it makes people no longer desire real sex...

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Porn Kills the Urge for Real Sex
Porn is a sexual stimulus, but it is not sex. Notoriously, heroin addicts eventually lose interest in sex: this is because their brains are rewired so that their sex reward system is reprogrammed to seek out heroin rather than sex. In the same way, as we consume more and more porn, which we must since it is addictive and we need more to get the same kick, our brain is rewired so that what triggers the reward system that is supposed to be linked to sex is no longer linked to sex—to a human in the flesh, to touching, to kissing, to caressing—but to porn.

Which is why we are witnessing a phenomenon which, as best as anyone can tell, is totally unprecedented in all of human history: an epidemic of chronic erectile dysfunction (ED) among men under 40. The evidence is earth-shattering: since the Kinsey report in the 1940s, studies have found roughly the same, stable rates of chronic ED: less than 1 percent among men younger than 30, less than 3 percent in men aged 30-45.

As of this writing, at least ten studies published since 2010 report a tremendous rise in ED. Rates of ED among men under 40 ranged from 14 percent to 37 percent, and rates of low libido from 16 percent to 37 percent. No variable related to youthful ED has meaningfully changed since then, except for one: the advent of on-demand video porn in 2006. It’s worth repeating: we went from less than 1 percent of erectile dysfunction in young men to 14 to 37 percent, an increase of several orders of magnitude.

Online forums are full of anguished reports from young men about ED. An agonizing story is eerily common: a young man has his first sexual experience; his girlfriend is willing, he loves her or at least is attracted to her, but finds himself simply unable to sustain an erection (though he is perfectly able to maintain one when he watches porn). Many more report a milder version of the same problem: during sex with their girlfriend, they must visualize pornographic movies in their heads to sustain their erection. They are not fantasizing about something they like more: they want to be present, want to be aroused by a real woman’s scent and touch. They understand perfectly well how absurd it is to be more attracted by the substitute than by the real thing, and it distresses them. Some must put hardcore pornography on in the background in order to be able to have sex with their girlfriends (and, incredibly, the girlfriends agree to this). "

again this is a secular source, but read the rest of the article here:
A Science-Based Case for Ending the Porn Epidemic
 
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(update)- this article was offline when I checked at 3:30am pacific. It may be up, but I think word is getting around about the scientific case against porn and it crashed the site servers, they may be up in a few days when traffic lessens. But all the more to read what I posted below, because you can't get it elsewhere.
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Porn Kills the Urge for Real Sex
Porn is a sexual stimulus, but it is not sex. Notoriously, heroin addicts eventually lose interest in sex: this is because their brains are rewired so that their sex reward system is reprogrammed to seek out heroin rather than sex. In the same way, as we consume more and more porn, which we must since it is addictive and we need more to get the same kick, our brain is rewired so that what triggers the reward system that is supposed to be linked to sex is no longer linked to sex—to a human in the flesh, to touching, to kissing, to caressing—but to porn.

Which is why we are witnessing a phenomenon which, as best as anyone can tell, is totally unprecedented in all of human history: an epidemic of chronic erectile dysfunction (ED) among men under 40. The evidence is earth-shattering: since the Kinsey report in the 1940s, studies have found roughly the same, stable rates of chronic ED: less than 1 percent among men younger than 30, less than 3 percent in men aged 30-45.

As of this writing, at least ten studies published since 2010 report a tremendous rise in ED. Rates of ED among men under 40 ranged from 14 percent to 37 percent, and rates of low libido from 16 percent to 37 percent. No variable related to youthful ED has meaningfully changed since then, except for one: the advent of on-demand video porn in 2006. It’s worth repeating: we went from less than 1 percent of erectile dysfunction in young men to 14 to 37 percent, an increase of several orders of magnitude.

Online forums are full of anguished reports from young men about ED. An agonizing story is eerily common: a young man has his first sexual experience; his girlfriend is willing, he loves her or at least is attracted to her, but finds himself simply unable to sustain an erection (though he is perfectly able to maintain one when he watches porn). Many more report a milder version of the same problem: during sex with their girlfriend, they must visualize pornographic movies in their heads to sustain their erection. They are not fantasizing about something they like more: they want to be present, want to be aroused by a real woman’s scent and touch. They understand perfectly well how absurd it is to be more attracted by the substitute than by the real thing, and it distresses them. Some must put hardcore pornography on in the background in order to be able to have sex with their girlfriends (and, incredibly, the girlfriends agree to this). "

again this is a secular source, but read the rest of the article here:
A Science-Based Case for Ending the Porn Epidemic
 
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Porn is actually a really unhealthy way to learn about sex. If you've gotten some of your sex education from porn, you'll probably need to do some UN-learning. Instead of porn, try asking real people real questions. Ask your spouse what THEY like. Communicate!
 
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According to recent research by the BBFC, underaged girls tend to view porn to learn what to do during sex so they can “meet the perceived [porn-inspired] expectations of boys,” despite their fear that boys consider “aggressive sexual behavior” to be “normal” because of porn.

This is sooo sad.
 
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When you watch porn, you’re strengthening the reward pathway in your brain that connects arousal to porn. Often, pathways connecting pleasure to things like touching/cuddling aren’t being reinforced as strongly, so they become weaker while connections to porn become stronger.
 
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John Mayer said in an interview that it was not uncommon for him to see over 300 online images before getting up out of bed in the morning. And this is causing people to prefer imaginary fantasy to having real relationships with real people. Pornography is devastating.
 
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By Carolyn M. West, Ph.D., University of Washington

As a Psychology Professor, who has been investigating domestic violence and sexual assault for more than two decades, I never aspired to be a pornography researcher and I never expected to produce something like my documentary, “Let Me Tell Ya’ll ‘Bout Black Chicks: Images of Black Women in Pornography.” Yet, I became inspired to do this work after reviewing the visual images on more than 4,000 front and back covers of pornographic DVDs featuring Black women performers that had been produced in the past 20 years.

Here’s what I have learned along the way and why I think you should care about racism in porn.

Why does porn get a pass?
As critical consumers of media, we have begun to critique racism in just about every media format—movies, Twitter and Facebook feeds, and even children’s programming.

Despite the financial benefits of its release on the Disney’s streaming site, Bob Iger, the company’s chief executive wisely concluded that the 1946 film Song of the South “wouldn’t necessarily sit right or feel right to a number of people today.” In this case, it was probably a good corporate move to apply cancel culture to a movie that featured musical and animated sequences of happy formerly enslaved Black people on a post-Civil War Southern plantation.

Yet, in our same culture, the porn industry appears to get a free pass to promote horrifically racist and abusive content in the name of sexual entertainment to anyone with internet access, even children.

At the time of writing, PornHub has an average of 115 million daily visits, which is equivalent of the combined populations of Canada, Australia, Poland, and the Netherlands all visiting this popular website in one day. Despite PornHub’s terms and conditions that do not allow “racial slurs or hate speech,” a search for the “n” word turned up thousands of user-loaded videos with the word used in the title, description, or in comments. This should violate the rules by anyone’s measure. Even on professional porn sets the “n” word is frequently hurled at Black men performing with White women.

The racism was so unbearable for one Black performer named Maurice McKnight, who performed under the name Moe the Monster, that he filed a lawsuit against the director for allowing another performer to call him the n-word, against his wishes, during filming. Talk about a hostile work environment.

It doesn’t take long to stumble upon any number of racist titles that promote offensive and unwarranted racial stereotypes about Black women. Relegated to “gonzo” porn, which are low budget films with little glamor, Black women most often play the role of prostitutes in videos entitled “Ebony Sex Workers” and “Black Girls Working the Streets.” Not satisfied to call them the usual gonzo terms of [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]/harlot/cumdumpster, the performers are called “Black Ghetto Freaks” and “Inner City [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]s.” To further smear them as lower class, Black women are featured in urban settings, rundown buildings, and trash-filled alleys.

So porn sexualizes everyone, but the combination of racism, sexism, and often classism, since Black women are often shown in distressed communities, leaves Black women both sexualized and dehumanized in different ways than other ethnic groups.

Over the years, thanks in part to the civil rights activists, overt examples of racism that were once commonplace in mainstream media have become less acceptable. Yet, hidden behind the façade of fantasy and fun, porn delivers racist stereotypes that would be considered unacceptable were they in any form of mass-produced media.

We should all care because no multi-billion dollar business should side-step scrutiny after they play on and cash in on racially harmful images."

to read the rest of this post it's on an online advocacy group called "fight the new drug.org"
Why Does the Porn Industry Get Away With Racist Portrayals of Black People?
 
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PornHub, the largest online pornography site, just made all premium services free globally.
SEE THE TRAP
AVOID THE SNARE

(I have been free from porn 100% for 5 years, DM me if you need some accountability, we'll battle this together)
 
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"PornHub has an average of 115 million daily visits, which is equivalent of the combined populations of Canada, Australia, Poland, and the Netherlands all visiting this popular website in one day." Pornography is at an epidemic...
@FightTheNewDrug
 
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According to The Centre for Women's Justice, figures show a "growing pressure on young women to consent to violent, dangerous and demeaning [sex] acts," which is "likely to be due to the normalization of extreme pornography."

#WomensHistoryMonto
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