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man, I've seen some scripture twisting before, but this is a new level of absurdity. If you have gay sex with someone, you're gay.In fact, that's the way gays sell it.
You're obviously poorly educated on the subject, so let me clue you in. In certain environments, men, may force other men to have sex, while identifying as heterosexual. One obvious example is prison. Only 5% of the population is considered gay, but male on male rape in prison is rampant. So by your logic the majority of prison inmates are gay, even though if you were to ask them, they would probably kill you for even daring to suggest the ridiculous notion that they aren't straight.

In ancient times, men would pillage a town, and rape the male citizens in order to shame and embarass them. This didn't make them gay, it made them rapists.

Rape is about power and control - not sexual orientation.
 
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You're obviously poorly educated on the subject, so let me clue you in. In certain environments, men, may force other men to have sex, while identifying as heterosexual. One obvious example is prison. Only 5% of the population is considered gay, but male on male rape in prison is rampant. So by your logic the majority of prison inmates are gay, even though if you were to ask them, they would probably kill you for even daring to suggest the ridiculous notion that they aren't straight.

In ancient times, men would pillage a town, and rape the male citizens in order to shame and embarass them. This didn't make them gay, it made them rapists.

Rape is about power and control - not sexual orientation.

Likewise, this is what 'the infamous chapter' regarding Sodom and Gomorrah is all about. In this case it was referred to the mild sounding phrase (to us) of 'being inhospitable'. Heterosexual men would rape other male citizens whose town/city they had pillaged in order to 'demasculinize' them or, as you say, to shame and embarrass them. The (heterosexual) men of Sodom (who were married and had families) wanted to demasculinize Lot's visitors because they didn't want them there. That's assuming the story refers to an actual event, of course. Even so, the point is that this is what would have taken place had the event not been nipped in the bud.

How this kind of behavior (apparently accepted at the time) has become associated with homosexuality per se I simply don't know. The problem is, however, that now it IS associated with homosexuality per se some people are relishing in this ignorance of the facts to the detriment of fellow human beings whose only sin appears to be that they are gay.
 
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I am more than sure you know what I mean by gay theology. I have proven beyond doubt that I know its precepts and doctrines well.

An honest disagreement on one minor doctrine -- and make no mistake, a doctrine based on five less than crystal clear passages, which does not dispute who Jesus is, or the mission of the Holy Spirit, or the nature and course of Salvation, is a minor doctrine -- is not a different "theology." No more than the similar differences between Christians over infant baptism.

And my position is even less a different "theology." My position is not based on the claim that "gay sex" is "all right," or even that it is "all right" under certain circumstances, even though I cannot find any Biblical passage to deny that it is. It is based on the fact that even if it is always wrong, we are not authorized to condemn those who honestly read permission in the Bible.

A theology is an integrated system for understanding God and His purposes, and, in particular, His will for our lives. One minor doctrinal difference is not a theology.

Two wrongs make only two wrongs. Gay pride is worldly, plain and simple.
?????:confused:????? What two wrongs?

I could understand this response if I had compared your reaction to homosexuality to your reaction to adultery (even though even then it would be missing the point of the comparison). But I didn't list two wrongs. I tried to describe what I thought you might have meant by "gay theology" (and I already had indicated that I was not sure what you meant by the term) and then went on to show that the type of people you seem to feel define "gay theology," while not exactly straw man stereotypes, do not define all, or even most gay Christians.


Not intending a pun here, but you are trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. Homosexual relationships do not fit the Biblical testimony. There is not a single word or sentence or chapter that can show any support for homosexuality thought or acted upon.
There are only five passages that seem to refer to male-male sex in a negative way. None of them can be shown to definitively condemn it under any and all circumstances, because all five describe situations which are sinful even when the partner is female. Using the same logic, you might as well say that because the Scriptures condemn adultery, and prostitution, especially temple prostitution, it condemns all sex, especially since there are no Scriptures that describe acceptable sexual practices. The main reason we know that sex is not condemned out of hand, is that one of the results of marital sex, children, are considered a blessing.

But procreation is not the primary purpose of marital sex. The passage (Genesis 2:18-24) that many people claim defines marriage tells us that Eve was created to provide Adam with companionship. Paul sees marital sex as a lesser good for those who cannot vow celibacy (1 Corinthians 7:1-9). But again, in these passages, as in Hebrews 13:4a, sex is neither named or described, but merely implied.

There are, likewise, passages that lend themselves to interpretations that imply intimate same-sex relations may have included physical intimacy. They don't mention sex itself any more than the passages referenced in the last paragraph do, but the only reason some can claim that, for example, that they are certain that David and Jonathan could not have been sexually intimate is that the Bible would not elevate David if he was intimate with another man. (Yet it elevates him even though he committed adultery and conspiracy to murder.) But this is circular reasoning: "This passage cannot imply 'homosexuality' can ever be OK because the Bible, taken as a whole, condemns 'homosexuality,' and we know the Bible condemns "homosexuality" because there are no passages that imply that it can ever be OK."

But again, even if you believe that "homosexuality" is wrong, we are not only not authorized to condemn gays, we are forbidden to judge them.

Do you think rewriting Christianity is a minor irritation? Gay theology invents a new religion based on, something Christian-like.
Actually, "rewriting Christianity" based on minor doctrinal considerationsis even less than a minor irritation. The Catholic Church "rewrote Christianity" when it took over pagan holy sites and created saints that echoed the gods that used to be worshiped there. It was rewritten again by the Protestant Reformers, and then again by the Anabaptists when they rejected infant baptism, etc. But the core doctrines remained, and the faithful are still forgiven and redeemed, and so Christ's Church survived.

You'ld rather they stay and look like they are supporting the Sodomites taking positions of power and leadership? Every day in a heretical Church is a bad witness to the lost.
Again, we are not talking about a core doctrine; we are talking about a minor difference in interpretation. Even if the "pro-gay" interpretation is wrong, the answer is not condemnation and schism. Again I refer back to Romans 14.

It is better to split. The Anglicans north and south going their seperate ways is a good thing for the truth. The Africans are doing what is right.



The Torah was compiled long before the third century BC. Same gender sexual coupling was a no no even then.
I don't entirely disagree with the idea that same-sex encounters were not encouraged, but it was understood that the rabbinical decrees were more restrictive than the actual command. Look up the concept of an "eruv."

"Ridding Sodomites from the land became a good thing for Israelite Kings to do:
"Sodomites" is a very poor translation of the people that are referred to in passages such as 1 Kings 22:47. The Israelite kings cleared the land of the "qedesh." These are the Canaanite counterparts to the Levites: people of the priestly caste who are not fully consecrated to directly attend to the god. Many (but not all), both male and female, chose to serve their god by engaging in sexual rituals which celebrated his fecundity and which also brought tangible treasure into the temple's coffers.

Since the same passages talk about tearing down their temples and groves, it is clear that the worship of the false gods, is the paramount concern, and "homosexuality" not as much. The male and female acolytes are always mentioned together and equally condemned. No difference is seen in their

I thought it was about cheeseburgers?
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Jesus, Peter, Jude and Paul lived before Augustine.
True, but even if they taught that "homosexuality" is a sin (which it is not clear that they did), they did not demonize it.

Jesus only mentioned gays once, and that was without condemnation.

Paul does list the "arsenokoitai" among a number of other sinners, but there is no singling out of any of the sins committed, nor is there any reason to define as "arsenokoitai" all gays.

Paul also quoted an example of the sin of unbridled Passion originally proposed by Plato, which happened to include an embedded ethnic/"gay" joke (Romans 1:26-27). And he took care to emphasize that the sin being discussed was Passion, and took steps to disentangle the joke from the sin illustrated.

Jude and Peter, like many Old Testament writers, used sexual terms to refer to spiritual faithlessness.

To LGBT's and "Q's" it is one and the same thing. It's truly odd that you cannot see that.
I have no clear understanding of what you are trying to say here. The best I can make of this statement (especially in light of the sentence it is in response to) is that you are claiming that the only reason someone would disagree with your interpretation of the passages we've discussed is because they have evil motives. I hope that I am wrong.

How then does Jesus expect us to know who to treat as pagans and tax collectors when they do not change their ways? That has judgment written all over it.
But how did he treat pagans (Matthew 8/Luke 7; John 4) and tax-collectors (Matthew 9;Mark 2/Luke 5)?

I reject that gay and liberal theological position on its face. Your assertion means that there can be no preaching and calling people to repentance at all. Think about what you are saying?
And yet passage after passage tells us exactly that. There are only four reasons for discussing sin, rather than focusing on glorifying God, uplifting our Christian brothers, and sharing the gospel: Formal matters of discipline (and then only by those given authority in the church and/or the community), when specifically asked or invited to share one's experiences either as an advisor and counselor, or in the abstract as in this forum, when examining one's own sins, and when someones sins are hurting you or an innocent third person.

And in the fourth case, we are given a specific formula to follow, keeping the problem as private as possible. First speak to him in privacy, then if he does not listen, bring in one or two trusted mutual friends, then bring it to the attention of a church elder, now making it a matter of formal discipline, but still keeping it as private as possible, and so on.

But we are only authorized to confront someone whose sin is against us (or a third person if we are the trusted friend of the second step). And we are ordered to forgive his sin against us. (See much of the gospel of Matthew, especially the Sermon on the Mount [Chapters 5-7] and Chapters 18 and 25.)

Please don't use the King james. It's irritating.
But you had no problem using it in order to highlight the word "sodomite" earlier in this same post. More contemporary translations make it clear that the qedesh are cultists (though many call them "cult prostitutes").

When I study the Bible I use several versions including both literal and dynamic translations; I also an interliear Greek (NT) or Hebrew (OT), several reference books, especially a good concordance and several commentaries. But when I quote the Bible in a venue like this forum, I use the AV for two reasons. One, it is easily accessed, so that it is clear that I have not corrupted the text, as might be harder to detect if I used a translation you could not reference.

And two, although some people, like you, prefer not to use it for whatever reason, no one claims that it is a corrupt and mistranslated version. On the other hand, there are a lot of Christians that will not accept any translation but the AV. It is for their sake (based on Romans 14:21 and 1 Corinthians 9:19-22) that I choose to use the only translation they will accept as valid.

The celebration of gay marriage is a good reason to split from a Church. Gay theological fruit does not come from the right tree.
You don't know any gay Christians, do you? Most of the gay Christians I know exhibit the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,, etc. Nor do they exhibit the works of the flesh any more than any other struggling Christian. (See Galatians 5:19-23)

You seem to be claiming 1) that homosexuality is a "work of the flesh" and 2) anyone who does not condemn people for homosexuality are exhibiting this "work of the flesh." But nowhere in the Scripture is disagreeing with onemorequestion is a "work of the flesh."

It's got problems obviously. The people in Jude's Church are making their demands known now in the UCC.
I have no idea what this sentence is supposed to mean. Could you please rephrase it?

I must disagree once again. To avoid further animosity is a very good reason to split.
It may become necessary, but it is not "good." It is a mark of failure that the factions could not reconcile and work things out.

Welcoming does not mean affirming behavior.
But it does mean seeing the "other" as human and not evil. Even if "homosexual acts" (or any other forms of "otherness") are sin, a person is not just his sin, and Jesus expects us to reach out to all persons as brothers that He wants to save.

In liberal/gay theology repentance is a hate crime. In orthodox Christian reality, repentance is key to membership in the Church.
Yes, there are a few who meet your expectations, so it is not entirely a straw man statement. And there is a second group that has been burned by your attitude, or that of others who react to gays as you have in these posts, and react badly themselves. But for most gay, gay-affirming, and gay-accepting Christians, the problem is not the doctrine that homosexuality is a sin that is the problem, it is the attitude which projects the impression that you believe that they only read the Scriptures differently because they are evil. And the way that attitude seems to lead you to break the oft repeated commands of forgiveness and acceptance, and the command against judging.
 
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repentance is a hate crime.
sorting issues that God raises to you is a hate crime? Repentance is to recognize need for change and act on it. If it's a problem for you and your peace with God, repent before it is counted!!
 
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sorting issues that God raises to you is a hate crime? Repentance is to recognize need for change and act on it. If it's a problem for you and your peace with God, repent before it is counted!!

Excuse me!! Do not put words in my mouth, especially words I never said and don't agree with. I have never called repentance a hate crime, nor have I ever implied that it was. Nor have I said a call to repentance is a hate crime, which would make more sense as an accusation. I have not even said that a call to repentance with a haughty and judgmental attitude is a hate crime, although some people do. Please read posts more carefully and quote them properly in the future.

In fact, in the post in which you misquoted me, I was pointing out that the previous poster's equating my position with a position of claiming it is a hate crime is claiming that all opinions other than his are the same extreme opinion that he has a set answer for.

As it happens, I have no problem with a doctrine that includes a need for repentance, and, indeed, my position includes such a doctrine. Where I differed with the previous poster was in the Biblical command for forgiveness and the Biblical injunction against judging others.
 
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Is their anyway that gays can be christian ?

Homosexuals can find Christ, but as they abandon their sinful ways to God and take on the righteousness of Jesus Christ, they cannot call themselves homosexuals anymore...they will become free of that bondage.

So, the answer is no.

1 John 3:6-9

6 Anyone who continues to live in him will not sin. But anyone who keeps on sinning does not know him or understand who he is.
7 Dear children, don’t let anyone deceive you about this: When people do what is right, it shows that they are righteous, even as Christ is righteous. 8 But when people keep on sinning, it shows that they belong to the devil, who has been sinning since the beginning. But the Son of God came to destroy the works of the devil. 9 Those who have been born into God’s family do not make a practice of sinning, because God’s life is in them. So they can’t keep on sinning, because they are children of God.
 
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Homosexuals can find Christ, but as they abandon their sinful ways to God and take on the righteousness of Jesus Christ, they cannot call themselves homosexuals anymore...they will become free of that bondage.

So, the answer is no.

Here we go again. I can find no place in the Bible where it states: homosexuality is a sin. If you can point out such a text - be it in English, Hebrew, Greek or Latin - then please do so.
 
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Olliefranz,
An honest disagreement on one minor doctrine -- and make no mistake, a doctrine based on five less than crystal clear passages, which does not dispute who Jesus is, or the mission of the Holy Spirit, or the nature and course of Salvation, is a minor doctrine -- is not a different "theology." No more than the similar differences between Christians over infant baptism.
No, that’s a wrong view in all cases.

Many do not see this as an honest disagreement, the very presence crystal clear passages being denied what they say is an example of dishonest disagreement.
Nor is this a minor doctrine, this is a fundamental core belief, it is we, male and female that God created in His image for the purposes He plans for us. Indeed marriage has been considered a sacrament traditionally, even Christ and the church are compared to husband and wife.
It is based on the fact that even if it is always wrong, we are not authorized to condemn those who honestly read permission in the Bible.
We cant and don’t condemn people, it is same sex relations believers know is error, and people cant read the opposite of what the Bible holistically and consistently says honestly, that’s dishonest.

even most gay Christians.
No such thing, they must be Christians.

There are only five passages that seem to refer to male-male sex in a negative way.
So even by your admission the statement is correct, believers know that homosexuality is the error and sin it is described as.

None of them can be shown to definitively condemn it under any and all circumstances, because all five describe situations which are sinful even when the partner is female.
That’s exactly what they do, one only has male and female involved so if one as opposed to the other is condemned ist all condemned.

The main reason we know that sex is not condemned out of hand, is that one of the results of marital sex, children, are considered a blessing.
Which means that we know all sexual immorality that is described outside of faithful man/woman marriage, includes any and every same sex activity.

There are, likewise, passages that lend themselves to interpretations that imply intimate same-sex relations may have included physical intimacy.
To us there are none that could include such assumption and interpretation because what is written throughout the Bible shows such an assumption to be contrary to what the Bible does say.

But again, even if you believe that "homosexuality" is wrong, we are not only not authorized to condemn gays, we are forbidden to judge them.
We don’t condemn gays, we are referring to same sex activity being wrong for believers. If gays come to accept Jesus Christ as Lord they are no longer gays but Christians.

Actually, "rewriting Christianity" based on minor doctrinal considerationsis even less than a minor irritation.
Not for most of the church and most Christians. Most Christians see gay theology as a counterfit and imposter Christianity, hence the splitting of churches.

You don't know any gay Christians, do you? Most of the gay Christians I know exhibit the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,, etc. Nor do they exhibit the works of the flesh any more than any other struggling Christian. (See Galatians 5:19-23)

Personally, and I know most Christians do, I agree with the statement.
The celebration of gay marriage is a good reason to split from a Church. Gay theological fruit does not come from the right tree.
If we have identified same sex relations as bad fruit and not of the Spirit, which is what the NT keeps repeating, life in the Spirit does not focus on desires of the sinful nature which are obvious, such as sexual immorality, then you might just as well be claiming the fruit of the spirit is lying, stealing adultery and murder.

I don’t know any gay Christians. I do however know some gays and some Christians. There is no such thing as a gay Christian, its an oxymoron.


You seem to be claiming 1) that homosexuality is a "work of the flesh" and 2) And the way that attitude seems to lead you to break the oft repeated commands of forgiveness and acceptance, and the command against judging.
The word of God shows same sex relations are to be judged as error and sin and avoided by believers, you have just shown again how gay theology is anti-Christian.
 
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KCKID,
Here we go again. I can find no place in the Bible where it states: homosexuality is a sin. If you can point out such a text - be it in English, Hebrew, Greek or Latin - then please do so.
Already pointed to such passages. Homosexuals can find Christ, but as they abandon their sinful ways to God and take on the righteousness of Jesus Christ, they cannot call themselves homosexuals anymore...they will become free of that bondage.
 
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KCKID,
Already pointed to such passages. Homosexuals can find Christ, but as they abandon their sinful ways to God and take on the righteousness of Jesus Christ, they cannot call themselves homosexuals anymore...they will become free of that bondage.
So when you became Christian, you were no longer a heterosexual?
 
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Jase,
When I became a Christian I realised heterosexual and homosexual were faulty human concepts. When I became a Christian I acknowledged Jesus Christ and His teaching as the truth, so to follow Him I had to choose marriage or celibacy.
the statement.
Thank you for asking. However the thread is not about my testimony but homosexuality, hence..
Homosexuals can find Christ, but as they abandon their sinful ways to God and take on the righteousness of Jesus Christ, they cannot call themselves homosexuals anymore...they will become free of that bondage.
 
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Here we go again. I can find no place in the Bible where it states: homosexuality is a sin. If you can point out such a text - be it in English, Hebrew, Greek or Latin - then please do so.

Oh, but that is simply spiritual blindness. Even if it is pointed out, it is denied.
 
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Debating Phinehas2 on this topic is rather like debating a politician. You get the same pat answers that generally don't address the actual question. My initial response to another poster that Phinehas jumped in on was: Here we go again. I can find no place in the Bible where it states: homosexuality is a sin. If you can point out such a text - be it in English, Hebrew, Greek or Latin - then please do so.

I'm not interested in 'abomination' or those 'not inheriting the kingdom of God' ...both of those items are either too general or ambiguous or both. I'm asking for a text that specifically states 'homosexuality is a sin'. The reason I ask for such a text is because 'homosexuality is a sin' is the catch phrase used by the majority of Christians. It therefore MUST be in the Bible one would think. But ...where?
 
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I'm not interested in 'abomination' or those 'not inheriting the kingdom of God' ...both of those items are either too general or ambiguous or both. I'm asking for a text that specifically states 'homosexuality is a sin'. The reason I ask for such a text is because 'homosexuality is a sin' is the catch phrase used by the majority of Christians. It therefore MUST be in the Bible one would think. But ...where?

Calling something an abomination and saying people who do something are disenfranchised from the .Kingdom of God is pretty direct.
 
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KCKID,
Debating Phinehas2 on this topic is rather like debating a politician. You get the same pat answers that generally don't address the actual question.
or rather the word of God is clear and quoting it is seen to KCKID and avoiding the issue.

I'm not interested in 'abomination' or those 'not inheriting the kingdom of God' ...both of those items are either too general or ambiguous or both.
then I think it would be reasonable to suggest you don’t believe what the scriptures say.

I'm asking for a text that specifically states 'homosexuality is a sin'.
and thus you cant ask for something you wont accept.
 
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Homosexuals can find Christ, but as they abandon their sinful ways to God and take on the righteousness of Jesus Christ, they cannot call themselves homosexuals anymore...they will become free of that bondage.


What we are and what we call ourselves is not the point. When an alcoholic becomes sober, he or she is still an alcoholic. When heterosexual sex addicts control their behavior, they are still sex addicts. Almost all of us struggle with pride... we are prideful people whether we call ourselves that or not. We don't chose our orientations... even the good ones like being artistic. A worldly homosexual lifestyle that includes casual sex is not in harmony with Christianity, but neither is a worldly heterosexual lifestyle that includes casual sex.

Given that:

1. Orientations and temptations are not sinful... only if we act on them.
2. Many sinful acts of a homosexual are also sinful for heterosexuals.

What it boils down to is this: is it possible for a homosexual to be intimate with a committed partner in a way that isn't sinful? We could debate the passages and historical context all day, but like so many other debatable questions, we won't know for sure as long as we are here on Earth.

Instead of losing sleep over this, Homosexuals (like the rest of us) should continue to grow their relationship with God. And we should all try to avoid disdain and judgmental condemnation. Remember that the second greatest commandment says, "Love your neighbor" not "Conditionally love your neighbor if they agree with you and are like you".
 
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KCKID,
or rather the word of God is clear and quoting it is seen to KCKID and avoiding the issue.

The word of God is clear when it states that disobedient children should be executed, does it not?

then I think it would be reasonable to suggest you don’t believe what the scriptures say.
But I DO believe that the scriptures state that disobedient children should be executed.
I'm asking for a text that specifically states 'homosexuality is a sin'. [/quote} and thus you cant ask for something you wont accept.
Clearly ...if the Bible specifically states 'homosexuality is a sin' then I'll have to accept that the Bible states that homosexuality is a sin ...now won't I?
 
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