If you REALLY cared you would NOT attempt to bind them eternally to the futility of "trying to stop sinning." NO ONE CAN JUST "STOP SINNING". If they could they would not need a Saviour. Shades of Paul's rebuke to the Galatians here, anyone?
1 You foolish Galatians! Who has bewitched you? Before your very eyes Jesus Christ was clearly portrayed as crucified. 2 I would like to learn just one thing from you:
Did you receive the Spirit by observing the law, or by believing what you heard? 3A re you so foolish?
After beginning with the Spirit, are you now trying to attain your goal by human effort? 4 Have you suffered so much for nothingif it really was for nothing? 5
Does God give you his Spirit and work miracles among you because you observe the law, or because you believe what you heard? 6 Consider Abraham: "He believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness."[
a] 7 Understand, then, that those who believe are children of Abraham. 8 The Scripture foresaw that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, and announced the gospel in advance to Abraham: "All nations will be blessed through you."[
b] 9 So those who have faith are blessed along with Abraham, the man of faith.
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All who rely on observing the law are under a curse, for it is written: "Cursed is everyone who does not continue to do everything written in the Book of the Law."[
c] 11 Clearly
no one is justified before God by the law, because, "The righteous will live by faith."
That bes your unorthodox error -- toxic soteriology what drives honest souls to despair before hope ever gets born -- and that of your kith.