Help! I Am Not Attracted To And Do Not Really Love My Wife

[thesunisout]

Thanks, i know youre right, it has been harder since i backslid, i know God still loves me and He is worthy, but every fiber of my being does not want to go back to that marriage. She is still willing to take me back, she is very Godly, i just cant stomach going back. Thanks for advice though, i know youre right. I continue to wrestle and forgot how much endurance and patience God has.

It's not about what we want because we don't belong to ourselves anymore. Christ paid for us and is our Lord, it isn't a question of what we want to do. I understand your situation because my marriage isn't easy either, but the Lord is continually helping me get through it and change me for the better. He will do the same for you as you submit and trust Him again. Just surrender this at His feet and ask Him to change your heart about your wife. He can give you His love for her.