So, I have a choice I need to make and would like to know other’s opinions on it.
I’m a 19 year old guy with full time job but I make a little more than minimum wage. I still live with my parents but I think it’s time to move out. I’m the kind of person that doesn’t do well at all with constant criticism of everything I do. But that’s my family’s way of encouraging me. It just doesn’t work like that for me. I don’t consider constant criticism anything close to encouragement. I’ve tried talking to them about it but that just got me more criticism.
I’m already really hard on my self and I have struggled with depression quite a bit because of it. For the last 6 months I’ve been depressed free but because of all the criticism I’m starting to struggle with it again. And I’m also struggling spiritually because of it.
Long story short, I need out of the house ASAP. I can’t stand it any longer.
Problem is, I can’t afford to live on my own. I just don’t make enough right now.
But there is this girl I work with who needs a place too. She’s married to and has a baby with an abusive guy. We’re pretty good friends and get along well. She’s been telling me she’s been trying to find a place to live but can’t afford most of them either. And she asked me if I wanted to go in on a place with her. I at first said no. But I’m reconsidering.
She’s nice but isn’t Christian so I’m a little worried about that. I’m not at all interested in her and I don’t think she has any interest me. But it’s hard to tell sometimes.
So.... what do y’all think the wise choice would be? Stick it out at home and continue to struggle with the depression and my spiritual life or take the risk and move in with her?
Edit: I also just started building a credit score so I have no credit score at all right now. So I don’t think I can even get a place even if I could afford it.
I’m a 19 year old guy with full time job but I make a little more than minimum wage. I still live with my parents but I think it’s time to move out. I’m the kind of person that doesn’t do well at all with constant criticism of everything I do. But that’s my family’s way of encouraging me. It just doesn’t work like that for me. I don’t consider constant criticism anything close to encouragement. I’ve tried talking to them about it but that just got me more criticism.
I’m already really hard on my self and I have struggled with depression quite a bit because of it. For the last 6 months I’ve been depressed free but because of all the criticism I’m starting to struggle with it again. And I’m also struggling spiritually because of it.
Long story short, I need out of the house ASAP. I can’t stand it any longer.
Problem is, I can’t afford to live on my own. I just don’t make enough right now.
But there is this girl I work with who needs a place too. She’s married to and has a baby with an abusive guy. We’re pretty good friends and get along well. She’s been telling me she’s been trying to find a place to live but can’t afford most of them either. And she asked me if I wanted to go in on a place with her. I at first said no. But I’m reconsidering.
She’s nice but isn’t Christian so I’m a little worried about that. I’m not at all interested in her and I don’t think she has any interest me. But it’s hard to tell sometimes.
So.... what do y’all think the wise choice would be? Stick it out at home and continue to struggle with the depression and my spiritual life or take the risk and move in with her?
Edit: I also just started building a credit score so I have no credit score at all right now. So I don’t think I can even get a place even if I could afford it.
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