father seeks help with very young wife who seeks ana bortion.

[juden6940]

True and if we have our last child at that age, we'd be empty nesters by our early forties. Wow.
i'm not going to think that far ahead though.
We have to think about right now, and how we are going to make it just through the next year.

How are you doing. you said you were having problems with insurance and syuff?

 

[PegasusOnFire]

yeah and now I have to get a tooth filled and don't have dental insurance. Oh well, god will work it all out.

 

[juden6940]

there's one thing I am upset about. Like I said before, my wife is very small and petite and hardly looks like she is pregnant at all, so yesterday when we were looking for some maternity dresses for her, I walked to the other side of the store just to get some soda, and came back and found two other guys from my the highschool I was going to hitting on her and looking her up and down, until they saw the ring on her finger and our daughter who was with me.

I had to bite my lip just to stay under control.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I bet that would have been rough

 

[juden6940]

Yes, it was rough. She is a young pretty, sweet girl though, only 15 and a half. I might have done the same if I were in their shoes.

It just hut to see them try.


She is gone tonite with her mom though. I ma ujust relaxing and crusing the net.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

fun stuff, my daughter cried for an hour before going to sleep then hubby and I cuddled for awhile then went our seperate ways in the house. He wanted to watch a football game.

 

[juden6940]

Hey when football and basketball are on, that's important. I know I love watching my teams as well, and she gets sick of me watching game after game sometimes.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I have been known to nag him when he has spent the day making Christian and I watch games with him.

 

[juden6940]

Prgasus

I have another question. How do you get two sister in laws to get along. I mean they get along, but it doesn't seem they have much in common. My sister has always said she had been waiting for me to grow up, get married, have kids, so she could have neices nephews and a sister in law to hang out with and be friends. Ofcourse, she always thought I'd be older than a younger teenager when I started, but nevertheless she wants to be friends with my wife and my wife does not seem to be responding at all. She gets very quite around my sister, and never says much around her.
My sister will eb going on thirty this year, and is a very kind godfearing women with two young boys who only wants to be friendsw with my wife. I know there is an age gap there, and an almost thirty year old does not have much in common with a 15 year old, except for the fact that their both mothers.
I don't want to force my wife to hang out with my sister if she feels uncomfortable around her, but I also do not want to hurt my polder sister's feelinsg either.
How do I spare the feelinsg opf two of the most important girls to me in my life?

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I am going throught this to, but I am not sure how to deal with it. Don't force them together, but pray about the situation.

 

[juden6940]

Really, what is your situation with family, your sister in law?

 

[PegasusOnFire]

actually a bit of both, I am on the outs with my own sister and my Sister in law and brother are on the outs with my family. Loooong story and I really don't know why we are both being picked on.

 

[juden6940]

Wow, I am sorry to hear about that. I will pray it gets better for your family.
My sister and wife aren't on the outs with one another. My wife just says she feels uncomfortable around my sister, because she is twice her age, doesn't have alot in common with her. Plus, my wife is an extremely shy quiet girl, and my sister is a non-stop talker, who sometimes sticks her nose into affairs, and drops her share of advice where my wife doesn't want it.

 

[juden6940]

She has also said now that she does not know for sure if she does indeed want to use birth control pills after the baby's born. She said she has heard about harmfu side effectsl stuff about them, and they make her nervous now.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I have a sister in law (I have 3 SIL's) that is a talker as well, and I just caulk that up to that is Jamie. She won't stop being a talker and I won't stop being a listener. It has worked out great with us, and I pray that your wife and sister can find that good medium. You could talk to your sister and let her know that her advice giving kind of turns your wife off. And also add thta it does you as well, don't make your wife the enemy or the wrong doer, cause that is what she will think.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

well have her talk to her OB/GYN or midwife about the different forms, some preven ovulation while others prevent attachment.

 

[juden6940]

True, maybe the same relationship that works out for you and your sister could work for them.
How long have you and your sister in law known each other?
How does a young girl like my wife relate to an almost 30 as friends?

 

[juden6940]

I don't know about the different forms, and I don't think she does either, but she is seeing a doctor.

 

[juden6940]

also, I will let my sister know that it is me who does not like the unwanted advice as well, so as not to make her feel as if she is alone on it. The truth is I want the advice at times, because alot of it has helped me to become a better father and husband, a more thoughtful one.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

True, maybe the same relationship that works out for you and your sister could work for them.
How long have you and your sister in law known each other?
How does a young girl like my wife relate to an almost 30 as friends?

I have known my SIL since I was 12.

they need to find something in common, like shopping, movies, books anything they can relate on the same level as not thier kids.