seeingeyes
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If you don't feel an attraction to someone, that's fine. But to base who you will date on their weight, which is how I (possibly mistakenly) read your OP, is shallow.
I have to (partially) disagree with this point. People are allowed to base 'who they will date' on whatever criteria they like.
No one owes anyone else 'a shot' at an exclusive relationship.
In terms of your friend, she needs strong women around her to teach her her worth in God's eyes, and to help her cultivate and recognize her own beauty.
What she definitely does not need is some meathead to date her because he was guilted into it by people who accused him of being shallow.
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