I didn't learn about evolution at school, so lots of things puzzle me. I do remember at primary school looking at a picture of humans developing from more ape like creatures and gradually becoming upright - and thinking...that is ridiculous! Made no sense to me, but then again I had no explanation as to why that would happen.
That type of diagram specifically is not a good representation of evolution. Heck, a good portion of them even put humans as evolving from chimpanzees, which is incorrect.
But anyhow, one of my questions is, how on earth did different 'sexes' arise? If we all started from single-celled creatures and many creatures like amoeba and spyrogyra just split in two, so to speak, to multiply...well, how did creatures after that start getting male and female organs, not to mention wombs and female breasts or various forms of udders etc, to reproduce and feed their young? I mean, I can't see that there would suddenly be an animal (however 'primitive') suddenly develop a penis and close by, there is one that develops a vagina etc etc etc. So presumably, this would have to develop gradually, but I just don't understand how.
I don't know if you can explain the process in any way?
It is explainable, and actually rather simple. Even today, there are single celled organisms that reproduce both by "splitting into two cells" by themselves, and via sexual reproduction. Many are hermaphrodites entirely, but as can be seen in other species, the split begins with populations having ones that solely produce the "male" gametes (sex cells) mixed in with the hermaphrodites. The benefit of being male is that less energy has to be used up making sex cells, as these individuals only make one type. However, as you might note, the hermaphrodites still exist to keep reproduction going. An example of populations like that are certain stages of fern life cycles. Now, with sufficient males in the population, there can be a selective force on the remaining hermaphrodites to dedicate more of their cellular function to the female sex cells rather than making both. But, there is a give and take with that, hence why the mixed hermaphrodite and male populations still exist as well as male and female. With making male gametes, it makes it easier to spread genes without expending the energy of serving as the female, even as a hermaphrodite. However, energy is conserved far more with making only one type of sex cell. So, if conditions favor reducing energy consumption, there will be selective pressure for the remaining hermaphrodites to gradually dedicate more and more to making only the female sex cells. If conditions do not favor reducing energy consumption, then the selective pressure will be for them to remain hermaphrodites.
To summarize in brief:
1. Start with asexual reproduction
2. Sexual reproduction with hermaphrodites and asexual reproduction
3. Sexual reproduction with hermaphrodites, asexual reproduction ceases (it's less effective at producing healthy offspring, but more reliable at allowing survival when very few individuals remain in a population, hence why many organisms still use asexual reproduction)
4. Sexual reproduction with hermaphrodites and males
5. Sexual reproduction with males and females.