Two main issues for ANYONE posting in CF that are non-negotiable are the doctrine of the Trinity & the Nicene Creed.
Maturity in Christ brings spiritual discernment by the Spirit of truth, through use of constant practice in distinguishing between what is right & what is wrong, what is good & what is evil.
Heb 5:11-14 About this we have much to say, and it is hard to explain, since you have become dull of hearing. For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you again the basic principles of the oracles of God. You need milk, not solid food, for everyone who lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, since he is a child. But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil.
The OP is showing disagreement with the consistent, ancient & historical doctrine of the Holy Trinity, as set forth in the Nicene Creed.
When the OP is complaining about the errors of Christianity & false interpretations bringing confusion, yet giving no examples of this, they then show a cardinal error in misrepresenting the doctrine of the Trinity. This is what Christianity is all about: 'defending the faith once for all delivered to the saints.'
The Holy Spirit (capitalized NOT lower case as the OP chooses to disrespect this Person of the Holy Trinity) is portrayed consistently above as an 'IT' not a Person. This is false teaching in every branch of Christianity.
Nicene Creed:
"And we believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life. HE--proceeds from the Father & the Son & WITH the Father & the Son is WORSHIPED & glorified. HE--spoke through the prophets."
We, as Christians, do not worship an 'IT.'
The Athanasian Creed also brings this out:
" ...We worship one God in trinity & the trinity in unity, neither blending their PERSONS
nor DIVIDING their essence. For the person of the Father is a DISTINCT PERSON, the person of the Son is another & that of the Holy Spirit STILL ANOTHER. But the divinity of the Father, Son & Holy Spirit is one, their glory equal, their majesty coeternal."
The OP's statements above are very similar to what Jehovahs' Witnesses teach, with the same wording.
"It is important that we realize that the Holy Spirit is a person. If you think of the Holy Spirit only as an essence, only as a breeze, only as a power, it is very difficult to develop a meaningful relationship with an essence. If you think of the Holy Spirit as an impersonal force, an unintelligent power that permeates the universe, you really cannot love Him or call upon Him in your time of need." Chuck Smith
Notice also the contradictions concerning the Holy Spirit in the above quote:
"The holy spirit DOESN'T speak on it's own. It speaks through us & sometimes WITHOUT limit."
"The holy spirit is an all loving gentle PERSONA WITH a mind of it's own."
Persona: 'a role adopted by someone.' Again person isn't used but portraying the Holy Spirit as a role being played.
Or again:
We already HAVE a spirit. The Holy Spirit is a distinct person different than our spirit. We don't receive some impersonal 'spirit' when spiritually born again, we receive the person of the Trinity, the Holy Spirit.
Again, we don't take possession of the Holy Spirit, He takes possession of us when we believe in Christ. We are God's special possession. The Holy Spirit indwells us at the point when we are born again by God's mercy & grace through faith, when we are regenerated or made alive in the Spirit & given the very eternal life of God.
The Person of the Holy Spirit by Chuck Smith