What are you even talking about? You seem to be claiming secularized government around the world is of no consequence, that it all rides on the shoulders of the individual??? Did you read Benedict's Lenten reflection of 2013 that I posted? Are you disagreeing with him? That for the individual secularized government makes living a God centered holy life difficult indeed? That Christ only in the private sector is not enough? Giving him lip service is not enough. In this God forsaken society, people, even those raised Christian find it impossible to not be influenced by these God forsaken laws. I think you may have been influenced if you're debating this. You're kidding me right? Hollywood is brainwashing, even cartoons are a bad influence. ABC's "family" programing geared towards preteen and young teens indoctrinating them, normalizing same sex relationships, one show was dad becoming mom. It's ridiculous. Public schools are normalizing this garbage as well. Rot in, rot out, you know this. How extremely difficult indeed is it to raise children in this secularism. So, yeah Christian marriage is difficult to be faithful even. Too many temptations given to us, too many God forsaken laws designed by the enemy to attack the individual. I have no idea what you are disagreeing with. It's simple really, we need to stop offending God in the public sector, He is already much to much offended.