Would it not be metaphysically acceptable if we all chose by our free will our own fates in HIM either as our GOD and Saviour OR as a liar and therefor a false god...?
The only thing wonky about predestination is the Calvinist assertion that election had to be without merit or condition found in neither the elect nor the reprobate. I suggest that rejecting this as the blasphemy of GOD's goodness it is, that it opens our thinking to accept an election by merit and a reprobation by dismerit found in each individual due to their free will choices..
IF the blasphemy of our election being without merit is rejected in favor of the idea that: those who put their faith in HIM merited election to salvation and the rejection of HIM by faith was the reason for the others being passed over for election to salvation as they were condemned on the spot. How is that not acceptable?
This is what the church has always taught, that the first right or just step for man, in response to God's calling, to His grace, is faith. And that pleases Him immensely prescisely because we can
refuse to act upon that grace, that gift; we can reject it, we can say "no" even though without Him we cannot begin to say "yes". Faith is the reversal, within ourselves, of Adam's "no" to God. But it's not only faith that pleases God but also that which faith is meant to lead to, which is hope and, most importantly, love. These two are also gifts of grace and, at the same time, human choices as well. And love is what Adam really missed. It would've bound him to God and precluded his disobedience. I think he possesses it by now.
To the extent that we embrace and act upon these virtues, we obey and do the good that God would have us do in order to be justified and inherit eternal life, Rom 2:7 and 2:13, we put to death the deeds of the flesh, Rom 8:12-13, we do the works prepared for us in advance, Eph 2:10, we obey the commandments, Matt 19:17, we feed the hungry and clothe the naked, Matt 25, we wash our robes, Rev 22.
Or we can refuse, we can reject grace, we can reject
God, at any point along the way.