"I've suffered from evil people in my life.
I've had horrifying health problems for a long time now.
I struggle with same sex attraction...
My grandmother's developed Alzheimer's in the past handful of years,
I have never married,
I can't drive a car,
I've gotten hurt in ways that have made my education worthless.
The money's going dry,
I'm starting to think God hates me."
Have you noticed how much of your OP was taken up with you and your problems? It's been my experience that the more I focus on myself and the more I am occupied with my problems, the less room in my mind and heart I have for God. It's no surprise to me, then, that the only mention you make of God in your OP is to say - mistakenly - that God hates you. It does not follow that, because all of the things you list above are true of your life, God therefore hates you. There are other possible reasons for the difficulties you're facing, not least of which is that in a world corrupted by Sin, suffering and struggle are inevitable. You could also have made some very poor life choices. God promises that when we walk rightly with Him, when we operate in life on the basis of His commands, truth, wisdom, and spiritual principles, His blessing and protection are our reward. Maybe it's time to start looking away from yourself and focusing a whole lot more on the beautiful, holy and awesome Prince of Peace.
Hebrews 12:1-3
1 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,
2 looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
3 For consider Him who endured such hostility from sinners against Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls.