AmericanChristian91
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I don't think I have to put myself in some label as a "bisexual" because I don't want to date, marry or have sex with another man.
I could see why you would not want to be labeled as a "bisexual" because you want no future with a man. That is understandable, but I must say that one should not confuse sexual orientation with sexual action.
For example....a celibate gay man....who is also a Christian, chooses because of religious reasons, to not date, to not have sex, and to not marry another man. But does this mean that he isn't gay? Well nope, because he still is not attracted to women, only men, even if he follows a godly path of being celibate.
Another example. A Man decided to become a Monk. He like most other men, is heterosexual, he likes women (and only women). However because of religious reasons, he is not going to date, have sex, and get married to a woman. He is not going to allow that part of himself to remove him from the path he believes God wants him on. Does the fact he is not going to be with a woman for the rest of his life mean he isn't straight, and should not be labeled as a "heterosexual"? I think we both know the answer to that.
Another example. A Man is bisexual, though he has fallen in love with a girl and marries her, and spends the rest of his life with her and never cheats. Does that mean he is then heterosexual like she is? Well nope, because he can still be attracted to other men, even though he has no plans on ever being with one.
I do think you are putting negative connotations on the term "bisexual" that don't need to be there.
You feel that if you consider yourself "bisexual" that means you must be open to having romance with men also. That would of course be a wrong opinion. If you had attractions to both sexes, you could still prefer women, and never date a man in your life, and even find a nice girl to marry.
But remember, whether you are bisexual or heterosexual, don't let your sexual orientation become the defining part of who you are.
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