Do women appreciate Men who do what's Necessary ?

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I'm finding it difficult to find a Women that can respect that I will always work 80 to 100hr work weeks it's very normal to me. I've had some humbling and life altering experiences and it is absolutely critical that I keep progressing forward. It seems Women think that If I can not make time for them that their not appreciated and that I come off as being selfish.

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The credentials can only carry you so far when it comes to women, if your spirit ain't right.
 
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I'm finding it difficult to find a Women that can respect that I will always work 80 to 100hr work weeks it's very normal to me. I've had some humbling and life altering experiences and it is absolutely critical that I keep progressing forward. It seems Women think that If I can not make time for them that their not appreciated and that I come off as being selfish.

Definition Of Working = Business Owner + PT Job And Pursuing My Bachelors Degree International Business Liberty U Online and Training for an Iron-Man 140.6

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That doesn't sound like an ideal marriage ---- just a tad extreme. Why can't you postpone marriage?
 
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I'm finding it difficult to find a Women that can respect that I will always work 80 to 100hr work weeks it's very normal to me. I've had some humbling and life altering experiences and it is absolutely critical that I keep progressing forward. It seems Women think that If I can not make time for them that their not appreciated and that I come off as being selfish.

Definition Of Working = Business Owner + PT Job And Pursuing My Bachelors Degree International Business Liberty U Online and Training for an Iron-Man 140.6

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It doesn't sound like this is the season of your life to try to share with a woman.

Sounds like this should be a season of abstinence for you.
 
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I'm finding it difficult to find a Women that can respect that I will always work 80 to 100hr work weeks it's very normal to me. I've had some humbling and life altering experiences and it is absolutely critical that I keep progressing forward. It seems Women think that If I can not make time for them that their not appreciated and that I come off as being selfish.

Definition Of Working = Business Owner + PT Job And Pursuing My Bachelors Degree International Business Liberty U Online and Training for an Iron-Man 140.6

Recovering From: Bankruptcy

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Pretty much the same here. I'm also recovering from losing all my life savings, and currently running a tiny business.

Sometimes I work 80+ hrs too inc weekends. My days off are variable, depending entirely on the workload.

The necessity of financial stability seem paramount these days.... It's not like I chose this life. If I happen to be a citizen of Denmark, I won't be working this hard!! I'd probably hike the mountains all day because of their incredibly generous welfare system!

Hollywood films seem to villify / lookdown on men who aren't able to spend enough time with wife or children due to work. It's a naive / childish perspective ignorant of the options or consequences of not having enough money or lack of financial stability.

To be honest I don't like the concept of money at all even though I work hard and try to make a little more. But things that conspire in our society to make it virtually a god, makes it harder to live with less of it. It is mostly a tool of the devil and we have to live in this evil world. That's the truth people should wake up to and stop living in the fantasy of wrong expectations.
 
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