Should men purposefully and willfully change they way they speak when speaking to women and vice versa? Or should they be themselves and speak as they normally would to any human.
I'm not talking about topical stuff. Obviously in general men and women do have different interests, jsut sit in on conversations between males only and conversations between females only. And definitely not talking about morality. Our words should always be seasoned with grace and we should have wholesome talk exit our mouths. I'm meaning more the delivery. Should men adjust their delivery for women and vice versa?
An example that ive heard of is men should tone down the logical approach to some topics, be less opinionated, less rational and even speak with softer tones (though im unsure what this means for a guy who has a very naturally rough tone lol), and the like.
Im unsure what women "should" do as i only see the recommendation for men to "tone down the logic stuff". Not a lot of suggestion for women
Is this type of thinking have any basis, what are you thoughts? I often hear this in conversation especially around husbands and wives. Sons and mothers,
Father's and daughters.
I also find the request for men to "tone down the logic" rather disrespectful towards women. Even when the request is coming from a women!
My vote is no, we should talk to each other however we talk to humans in general and our concern should be on the content of what we are saying, the heart intention of what we say and the wholesomeness of the topic.
Thoughts?
I'm not talking about topical stuff. Obviously in general men and women do have different interests, jsut sit in on conversations between males only and conversations between females only. And definitely not talking about morality. Our words should always be seasoned with grace and we should have wholesome talk exit our mouths. I'm meaning more the delivery. Should men adjust their delivery for women and vice versa?
An example that ive heard of is men should tone down the logical approach to some topics, be less opinionated, less rational and even speak with softer tones (though im unsure what this means for a guy who has a very naturally rough tone lol), and the like.
Im unsure what women "should" do as i only see the recommendation for men to "tone down the logic stuff". Not a lot of suggestion for women
Is this type of thinking have any basis, what are you thoughts? I often hear this in conversation especially around husbands and wives. Sons and mothers,
Father's and daughters.
I also find the request for men to "tone down the logic" rather disrespectful towards women. Even when the request is coming from a women!
My vote is no, we should talk to each other however we talk to humans in general and our concern should be on the content of what we are saying, the heart intention of what we say and the wholesomeness of the topic.
Thoughts?