I've been pondering about what you said these past few days.. I don't know.. maybe I should try to "being" for a while. I've tried it a little bit, and have felt some light/hope.
I'd say 90% of my attraction towards a woman (if not 95%) is for her mind. Yeah, I will fall quite madly in love if the woman's mind is beautiful, even if she's considered 'unattractive' from a superficial standpoint.
Looks count for very little when you're gazing up at the stars philosophising.
Just as women tend to highly value height, men highly value youthfulness. As someone who is hitting the age of 30 I tend to find most women around my age unappealing.
It's kind of a current situation. There's a guy that I found very physically attractive as well as he did myself. He's also a Christian but lives quite far and has six kids. I said we weren't suitable and I wondered how hard it would be since 6 weeks later he text me and later we can burst It Again by phone. I find something missing in him that makes it easy to let go of him.If you saw someone who you found physically attracted to but found out their personality wasn’t compatible with yours, would you still pursue them?
Wow, time really flies. Now I am 32.
My attractions are not different, I just have a stronger preference for women who are younger than me.
I remember walking past an aisle at the grocery store... and they had this like 70-year-old woman... and the magazine was trying to sell me that she's "attractive". It's really disturbing out of touch society is regarding what men want in women.
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Or there's what is known now as "body positivity" , in other words, people, especially women, embracing their obesity as beautiful.
Even an issue of Sports Illustrated on the front cover put up hefty woman on the front page. Um....this is a magazine for athletes, so what's wrong with this picture?
Or there's what is known now as "body positivity" , in other words, people, especially women, embracing their obesity as beautiful.
Even an issue of Sports Illustrated on the front cover put up hefty woman on the front page. Um....this is a magazine for athletes, so what's wrong with this picture?
I'm fine with woman admitting they prefer taller men and how psychologically important it is for them. The whole thing just becomes lopsided.
It is lopsided because statistically women have a pretty long list of criteria, while men only have a few. Like she's kind of cute, not gorgeous, but cute. Sweet and kind. The basics.
I saw a woman one time in her profile that she was specifically looking for a man that was a small craft pilot. She her ex's, though they tried to join her, eventually got bored of the hobby, while she moved forward with it. She said that this caused the demise of their marriage (him not wanting to participate after so long).
VERY oddly specific criteria NOT to budge on. But hey, "Why settle, and not be happy, right?" Pshh
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