The amazing thing about how the Devil works is we have discussed every single ridiculous detail of everything that is basically a waste of time. The Devil is really good at keeping people distracted, as this is shown through this topic as well as probably about 95% of the other topics on this site.
I will say that from talking to many non-believers, 95% of them do not believe in God because of the fact that they see people who call themselves Christians, they go to church and put smiles on their faces, but deep down they are wretched wolves in sheep clothing. I have heard it over and over "if Christians are like that, then there cannot be a God"
Anatheist, I don't know if you were once a believer and were turned off or not, but the most important thing to remember is you CANNOT put any trust in man, at all. I learned this the hard way. I went to church with many people who would smile in your face, and tell you they love you and all that good stuff. But their actions showed nothing but pure evil, their actions that are performed behind closed doors where nobody (but God) can see. They smile at your face, then as soon as you turn around they stab you right in the back. Churches are packed full of these Pharisees, these self righteous, stiff necked believers that think they are following Christ, but they are not. I have had these people literally tell me to my face "you are going to hell" and "there is no forgiveness for you". I had a time in my life where I was struggling with something and I needed someone's help, where were my Christian brothers and sisters? I thought we were all in this together! When I lost my home years ago I had "Christians" who once said to me "if you get stuck you can stay with us for a while", only to later on at the last minute say "we just don't have room", as they live in a $350,000 house. Then I have a friend of mine who is hardcore Atheist, barely has two sticks to rub together, and he opens his home to me without even a thought? What is up with that?
I will tell you what is up with that. Too many Christians are guilty of preaching the word, but not living the Word. They think that Christianity means let's have our nice little quiet church where everyone looks normal, no teens with rock and roll shirts or piercings. I can tell you that if you for some reason have chosen to reject God because of how other Christians have treated you, then it's time for you to lose your faith. When I say "lose your faith" I mean completely lose your faith in man, realize that there is not one person on this Earth that has your best interests at heart, no there is not even one. This is what I had to do, when I found that even people who were involved in the ministry would not reach out to me for support on different spiritual issues, and nobody would help me when I didn't have a home. I ended up telling my Atheist friend who opened his home to me "it's funny how you don't believe in God, but you seem to live your life closer to His Word than most Christians I know."
Even on here Anatheist, just about everyone on here is arguing with you, they are more focused on proving that you are wrong than following the spirit of God and letting the Holy Spirit do his work. They argue because they are self righteous, in their minds and hearts they have transcended where you are, they feel they are now an authority to pass down judgement.
Anatheist if you ever want to have a discussion instead of an argument, you can always send me a private message. I will be praying that the Holy Spirit will speak to your heart, I just hope that you will open your heart to listen.
Sorry I haven't responded sooner, I would've responded to your previous post but you made this one before I could. Let me start by saying that I realize your intentions are good. You mean well. However, this post and your last one have revealed your mindset perhaps a little too much. You've made many many assumptions about me that aren't true. You've made some pretty broad generalizations about atheists and Christians that I would also have to disagree with. HOnestly, I'm not sure why you would do this, except for perhaps you felt you needed to create a starting point of sorts to "help" me.
" Get rid of your rock and roll t-shirts and buy a suit, etc."
Do you have some idea of me as some sort of dyed-hair, ripped jeans, pierced everything, anti-establishmen punk? I can only assure you this is far from the truth.
" Actually I don't believe there is any proof one way or the other that you could call concrete."
" I can tell you that I would not trade this for anything, and I would happily die for my beliefs, I would die for the sake of Christ because he died for me."
This really speaks to my OP. You admit that you don't know of any "concrete proof" and yet you're willing to die for this belief. I'm sure we could come up with several things you don't believe because there is no concrete proof one way or the other, and yet you suspend this method of thinking when it comes to Christianity. So much so that you would die for it.
" I have heard it over and over "if Christians are like that, then there cannot be a God"
I've never heard an atheist say this, not once. Not on here (CF) or anywhere else. I don't know how many atheists you've spoken with, but to be honest with you, this sounds more like a common Christian mischaracterization of atheists than actual atheists. The reason for this is pretty simple, that statement is a classic strawman. Most atheists (IMO) who discuss religion are very familiar with strawmen and avoid using them at any cost. Basing your beliefs on a strawman would be awful and other atheists would jump all over any atheist who did that. I know I would, its just bad logic. Nearly every atheist I've ever known, including myself, bases their belief on evidence (or lack of it).
" you CANNOT put any trust in man"
It's a little sad you think this. I've known many trustworthy people. As for the ones who aren't trustworthy, I can at least trust them to act as people lol.
"I can tell you that if you for some reason have chosen to reject God because of how other Christians have treated you,"
THat's not why I'm atheist, please remember I don't believe in any god, not just yours.
" everyone on here is arguing with you, they are more focused on proving that you are wrong"
DId you read the OP? The discussions here are founded in that question, if we disagree-that's fine, that makes a good discussion.
" in their minds and hearts they have transcended where you are,"
Have they now? LOL
" you can always send me a private message."
You can do the same, I appreciate the offer.