This thread was inspired by a post by an ex-child molester on another Christian forum, who claimed God had set him free from his past, and also said that there would be less repeat offenses if child molesters were given hope for change...
I had been thinking for a long time before his posts that genuinely repentant ex-child molesters should be treated differently and looked after and given hope just like any other sinners in the Church. Of course, I believe what they have done (or desired to do) is disgusting, and that it should be called what it is - SIN - but God did say He came to save all kinds of disgusting sinners from their sin, not just some.
I, like any other sane person, feel very sorry for children who have been molested, and angry at those that did the deed. However, what if you were a person struggling with an attraction to children? Do you think every one of these people choose to have that deranged attraction? I can't really see why anybody ever would consciously choose it, although I think there are cases where people became child-molesters gradually out of their own increasingly disturbing sexual activities . I'm also sure, however, that just as there are frustrated, hurting, homosexual or inappropriate content addicted Christians out there who are desperate for change, there are also a number of people who have attractions to children who want change. Their situation is even worse! Where can they go to get prayer and ministry to get the perverse spirits out, or to get the healing necessary to either be free completely of the attractions or to have them lessened to a controllable level? (although I'd personally only be satisfied with a ministry that had hope for a full recovery from those attractions...)
They really can't speak to anybody! And I don't believe that that is fair. It might seem fair to the world, it might satisfy our own carnal sense of justice and our emotive disgust at the thought of what they've done (or desire to do) to children, but it's NOT in line with the Gospel! The Gospel implores us to be vehicles of God's salvation and restoration to ALL sinners.
I'm not so naive that I believe all child molesters are unhappy with their "orientation". Many are monsters who prey on weak children without a single repentant thought, and others even lead a double life; they're satisfied by their wives but they get extra kicks out of ruthlessly ruining children's lives on the side to gratify themselves. However, I'm sure there are some out there that are horrified with their attractions, and are just desperate for someone to offer some way out of them.
As Spirit-filled believers (I'm sure there are some actual Gift-practicing charismatics left on here) how would you deal with a child molester who genuinely wanted freedom (or claimed to have already been set free) in your Church?
I had been thinking for a long time before his posts that genuinely repentant ex-child molesters should be treated differently and looked after and given hope just like any other sinners in the Church. Of course, I believe what they have done (or desired to do) is disgusting, and that it should be called what it is - SIN - but God did say He came to save all kinds of disgusting sinners from their sin, not just some.
I, like any other sane person, feel very sorry for children who have been molested, and angry at those that did the deed. However, what if you were a person struggling with an attraction to children? Do you think every one of these people choose to have that deranged attraction? I can't really see why anybody ever would consciously choose it, although I think there are cases where people became child-molesters gradually out of their own increasingly disturbing sexual activities . I'm also sure, however, that just as there are frustrated, hurting, homosexual or inappropriate content addicted Christians out there who are desperate for change, there are also a number of people who have attractions to children who want change. Their situation is even worse! Where can they go to get prayer and ministry to get the perverse spirits out, or to get the healing necessary to either be free completely of the attractions or to have them lessened to a controllable level? (although I'd personally only be satisfied with a ministry that had hope for a full recovery from those attractions...)
They really can't speak to anybody! And I don't believe that that is fair. It might seem fair to the world, it might satisfy our own carnal sense of justice and our emotive disgust at the thought of what they've done (or desire to do) to children, but it's NOT in line with the Gospel! The Gospel implores us to be vehicles of God's salvation and restoration to ALL sinners.
I'm not so naive that I believe all child molesters are unhappy with their "orientation". Many are monsters who prey on weak children without a single repentant thought, and others even lead a double life; they're satisfied by their wives but they get extra kicks out of ruthlessly ruining children's lives on the side to gratify themselves. However, I'm sure there are some out there that are horrified with their attractions, and are just desperate for someone to offer some way out of them.
As Spirit-filled believers (I'm sure there are some actual Gift-practicing charismatics left on here) how would you deal with a child molester who genuinely wanted freedom (or claimed to have already been set free) in your Church?
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