"Reasonable Christian" and "Interested Atheist," eh? This should go well.
The point is, we all need to step up our game: atheists, agnostics, and theists alike. The discussions in this forum would be a lot more enlightening if we did.
I'll start with your conclusion, because I think it's a fine sentiment that I agree with. I think you should begin by applying it to your own post.
Yes, Christians make these mistakes. But you know what? So do atheists, including InterestedAtheist.
The question of whether God exists, or whether Christianity is true, is not a "both-sides-can-be-right" matter of opinion. Only one side can be right. That means that while both sides can clearly use sloppy reasoning, and probably do, one side is mostly wrong and the other side is mostly right.
They rationalize away unwelcome evidence for God's existence because they're determined not to believe in him, summarily declaring whatever evidence is presented to be inadequate. (Yep, we can psychoanalyze you too.) They take all of their ideas as facts, rarely presenting affirmative arguments for why they don't believe in God, which is different than proving he doesn't exist. After dismissing or rationalizing away all of the evidence for God's existence, they then declare God to be "hidden."
Looks like someone has had some bad experiences in previous debates!
This ties in nicely with the subject of this thread. So, you think we should present affirmative facts for why we don't believe in God? We should prove that God doesn't exist?
Great. Please prove to me that Santa doesn't exist.
Oh, and also: look, I promise you, I say this in all sincerity: I have never seen any even slightly convincing evidence for God's existence. If it's out there, and I haven't yet encountered it, please tell me what it is.
As InterestedAtheist did in his post above, they misquote the Bible all the time, or quote it out of context to make it say something it doesn't mean. For the record, the Bible does NOT say that bad things will never happen to the people God loves or that all prayers will be answered. In fact, it says the opposite of both.
Just a quibble here, but I didn't exactly say it. I agree with it, but it was a quote from the article.
Having said that, the Bible does say "Ask and you shall receive" - and, more importantly, the Bible shows many cases of people praying and having their prayers answered; and more importantly than that, the Christian culture that we are surrounded by encourages prayer and expects at least some level of success in getting answers. Take a look, for example, at
Prayer Wall
They routinely commit the genetic fallacy ("You're only a Christian because you were raised that way"), the ad hominem fallacy ("Christians are idiots"), and too many other logical fallacies to list here. And you know what? So do theists/Christians, including variations of "The Bible is true because the Bible says so" (begging the question). Christians, stop saying stuff like that.
(1) Most Christians are, in fact, Christians because they were raised that way. It's not a fallacy to point this out.
(2) I never say "You're wrong because you're an idiot. It's against forum rules to do so.
(3) Atheists may be guilty of sloppy reasoning, but their essential arguments are sound. Generally speaking, atheists lack belief in God because of insufficient evidence. This is perfectly rational. If you think there is evidence that God exists, I'd love to hear it.
And while there are a few contradictions in the Bible
How generous of you.
at least in the copies we have
Quickly qualified, I see.
none of them impacts central Christian theology. Plus, most of the "contradictions" people bring up are not actual contradictions -- i.e., two statements that are logically incompatible, such as declaring that A and -A are simultaneously true in the same way at the same time.
Myself, I don't spend much time looking for actual contradictions in the Bible. I just point out how the Christian religion doesn't make sense. See my signature.