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Can marriage ever be a sin if both are Christian

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I decided not to marry for the sake of gospel so people are not offended though they should not be if they think I do not care and to do more as marriage could be an obstacle if you do not have opportunity harder to focus on calling to preach gospel.
 
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I decided it is best to seek to marry to support it as it is from God that He intends though they don’t have to but it is good thing to encourage to encourage even more growth of Christians now and in future that it is God plan for people to marry and said he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord that God wants it that it is proper for them to marry to ensure to increase Christians though people need to convert which they may or may not so He blesses it though you don’t have to and also to raise children of influence. I know I just need to be commited to follow Christ when I have children.
 
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I think marriage is God plan that He wants it that you don’t have to marry but for those we know are Christian should get married to ensure there are more Christians who honestly choose to be christian to continue so I will seek to marry if I find someone who accepts me really who already was christian and truly seeks to have relationship with christ to follow Him.
 
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I decided it is not wise though we can not know when last days is still I think it could become last days at any time while things are bad and I don’t want to incase it could bring it about if people are only thinking about themselves to marry and to have many selfish ambitions without Christ and have not focused on the Lord that it is only good to if Christ has told me to and I have strong relationship with Christ and He shows me His will to follow Him in that path because He may will for me to be single to follow Him so unless the Lord guides to do so I think it is not wise to do so for myself.
 
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I think I should not let fear of that control as we don’t know when last days is and it can come anyway and I should not make world worser with such a fear but support those who want to get married to increase number of Christians which will help support the spread of Christianity and its teachings.
 
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I decided I will not get married for sake of gospel to better focus on it and to show I am content that I don’t want to give appearance of selfishness and to show I care for others if I may help gospel more to show I am content as others were prevented from marrying before and now can not have children so I should show I care to be content not selfish . Others can get married if they want but I think for myself I should not.
 
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I decided I should not seek to limit what I can do that would be good if others do not have as it could be and because to support marriage is good that no one should reject others without cause to do something good to show I have a purpose is good witness though I don’t need to. I don’t believe marriage is a talent you have to gain but for those who think they do even if it was everyone has talents they should use I can not judge by what others can not do less is expected of them. So I will seek to marry if I find someone who really accepts Christ who accepts me.
 
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I don’t think by doing so it helps as some people take advantage of what they see as failures to disrespect what you do so I will seek to marry if I find one as people can not look down on my goals and having goals they see I have is better witness for them to know I am able to work as them and is way I can use to share Jesus in my work.
 
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I think instead it is better for me to be single to save money to help more people and my sisters and brother children and to focus on my Christian growth. I think perhaps God wants me separate for sake of kingdom for God to continue to show care for my family and that it is not good to for me so I should be single to pray for God mercy for revival.
 
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I believe now that my actions do not help to make revival that is not how God works there already is that it is people choices and my family does not need it they already accept Christ and I think were already following Him according to what they know and just need to be open to following His will if we come to learn it and I should seek to marry as it is better witness as it gives more opportunity to do good when you have partner and people take advantage of single people to not respect them as failures not doing as much as they can as others that is useful and I should if good can come out of raising children and that I have a child that respects the Lord so I will seek to marry if I find one who I believe really seeks to follow Jesus and accepts me.
 
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Actually I think it is wrong for people to consider one arrogant in heaven it won’t matter if you have children but it is good to get married so others do not look down on one to show to others that you do not make yourself defeated so others can accuse you of doing to yourself to not value your decisions and I think it is good to seek to have family and children to show other one life is important and the value of your life to seek to have a home that lives for Christ so I will seek to marry if I find one who really seeks to follow Jesus and accept me
 
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Despite people lack of value I believe it is better for sake of kingdom to show care that people feel valued who are not married not to marry maybe God will give me grace to be able to work for Him to reach more people to be more effective so I will seek not to marry.
 
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I decided I will seek to marry people do not respect as much one who chooses his situation to allow oneself to struggle when he does not have to and it would be my fault if I do because I had chance.
I think I would like a family to share my life with then I think that what God plans and it is good witness to show that I have family to share life where we are Christians to those who do not respect me for my faith to have a family that loves the Lord that supports me.
 
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I decided I do not plan to marry as I don’t think it is helpful for the cause of the gospel to seem to make material things most important and seem negatively competitive and I should focus on my relationship with God to be more effective to be more trusting that He cares that my beliefs are true that others can be saved though others try to attack my beliefs and take advantage of my situation not married to attack it not respecting and I thought to marry to not allow to give importance to what they say to seem like I care which if I married and happy it may make them respect.
 
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I think I should marry for they take advantage of situation not to respect single people to make them seem not important their accomplishments if it is small. People may think I seek to be negatively competitive but they should not if I do not seek to. So I will seek to marry if I find one who I really believe seeks to follow Jesus and accepts me.
 
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