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Yes, basically. A factor in that was seeing how utterly convinced people are of other supernatural things. People will feel their chakras opening up and experience things that are just typical of this or that astrology sign, and so forth. A lot of people talk about how their kids get a sugar rush even though science has clearly shown that it's not even a thing. Heck, I even know adult people, atheists even, who will actually knock on wood. People will see connection and meaning where there is none.
Holo,
It sounds to me like what you really need is some space to figure things out. You want to tell your family the truth because you value the truth. Jesus said that he is the way, the truth, and the life. If that is the case, by relentlessly seeking the truth, you would find Him.
There does come a point in the life of anyone who contemplates their existence and hungers for truth when the question emerges: Do I really believe what I’ve been told, or am I just going along with the tradition of my fathers?
My journey was similar to yours. I was raised in the church, I believed there might be something, but I did not really believe it. That is to say, I wanted to believe, but I did not. It was not that I did not believe there was something more, but rather, I did not believe they had it right. I found the concept of accepting Christ and loving someone I didn’t even know irreconcilable. At the same time, I believed in the possibility of it being right enough that it bothered me that I did not believe.
When I moved out, I decided that I was not going to torture myself over something I simply didn’t believe. I resolved within myself that if there is a God, he gets it and if he didn’t, there was nothing I could do about it anyway because pretending to believe is not believing.
I hope this post isn’t too too long. I’m cutting out a lot to keep it shorter. J
Anyway, one day I decided I wanted to know if there was really a God or not. It was a scary thought to find out there is no God, but I figured it was better to know the truth regardless of what it was and accept the truth regardless of what it was. The truth became more important to me than what I wanted to believe.
Is this where you are?
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