Yes, any of us can be saved. But sin can have us feeling like each of us is some special case. And all of us were born in sin, which made every one of us the wrong way, at birth. There are many ways to be the wrong way!!
I think of how Jesus said that Sodom and Gomorrah would remain to this day, if His miracles had been done there. To me, this means those evil people of Sodom could have been saved. And they were not only gay, but tried to rape angels.
So, never mind how you compare to another human, but who are we in comparison with Jesus? Another trick of sin is to get us to compare ourselves with other people, and feel like we are less or more.
My opinion is that gay stuff has various things which are true of other sin problems. So, just stopping the behavior is not enough. We need to be corrected of the sin things which help to contribute to it, so we do not only reform and then still go along with ways that are wrong, but in other ways.
For example, in the United States we have a major problem with beauty discrimination. This keeps people from being able to love any and all people; so this keeps people from how Jesus in us would have us becoming all-loving. There are people who can not love even the ones they marry, because they are in love with the person's looks and charm acting and smile. And gay people can likewise have this problem of loving because of what someone looks like.
Also, any of us can try to use pleasure to make our feelings of boredom and loneliness go away, instead of becoming real in God's love. We use people to get pleasure, and this can be what hooks people into wrong relationships, gay or fornication or even legal marriages. But God's love does not have us trying to just use anyone.
Jesus has us caring for any person. Jesus on the cross died with hope for any evil person, at all. So, instead of just worrying about if Jesus wants you or me, we need to join Him in this example!!!
But sin in any of us can have us just or mainly concerned only with what is for our own selves.
So, the lusts for looks and pleasure are anti-love, whether these are in gays or fornicators or legally married people. Lust has no rightful place in marriage. So, in order to get into real relating in love, we need to not only stop the obviously immoral and perverted stuff, but also stop what helps take us into wrong things. Or else, you could get married but still be weak enough to give in to arguing and complaining > Philippians 21:13-16 < we need how God's love cures our nature and makes us strong against any and all dominating and dictatorial passions and nasty and unforgiving reacting and stinking thinking . . . so then we can personally share with Him, submit to how He rules us in His peace > Colossians 3:15 > and learn how He has us loving > Ephesians 4:2, Ephesians 5:21, Ephesians 4:31-32.
Do this, instead of being preoccupied with our sin problems. Have hope for all which is so better. If you feed in the Bible, you can notice how God does give major and very strong confrontations against various wrong things; but, also, with each confrontation you often can find a strong encouragement of how God has hope for you to get into all which is so better.
Love
"hopes all things", we have in 1 Corinthians 13:7.
For one example > I offered, above, Philippians 2:13-16. This confronts arguing and complaining; but with this is all we can have, instead, and so more and better. But only with God can we gain all the good He desires for us. So, we do not need to only make a self effort to stop wrong stuff. We need how His grace heals us and grows us in Jesus Christ's way of loving.
