No, I'm not an open theist. Again, in my view, God ultimately gives the person the choice to choose of reject him. He doesn't Predestine their eternal fate on a whim, they make their choice free of God forcing them to choose one over the other. It is a big difference. So why does God still create them? Because he still can use them to express his Glory through Divine Justice. However that is their choice, God takes no pleasure in it, unlike Calvin who believes they were solely created for Hell.
So, God creates people he knows will go to hell, for his own glory?
Sounds like the very thing you seem to oppose.
The thing is, you affirm that God creates people to go to hell. God, knowing that "Bob" will reject him, if he creates Bob, still decided to create Bob anyways. He could have not created Bob, sparing Bob the fate. But instead, he chose to create Bob, sealing his fate.
This is why, as James White says, the only consistent Arminian is an Open Theist. The only way you can deny that God creates people to go to hell is by affirming that God didn't know the fates of those he was about to create.
What drives us bonkers is that you think this is only true to Calvinism, or an exclusive dilemma for Calvinism. It's not. It's a fact all non-open theists must face.
I know for a fact you have that view. Having just dug through your dozens of forums, I will point you to your "The Illusion of a Gentleman God" forum, where you clearly agree with an article that says God controls human choices and actions.
Of course God controls everything. That's what the Bible teaches. It shouldn't even be up for discussion. God is the one manually pumping the heart of every single person on the planet. Everyone is in His hands, at all times.
And I'm curious, sense you seem to have such a big problem with synergists, do you think synergists are saved? I have never gotten a straight answer from you or others whenever I ask this.
Of course I think synergists are saved. I'm sorry if you got the impression that I don't think they are.
I have no problem fellowshiping with you or any other synergist. Some of my best friends are synergists. We get along great.
We disagree why people are saved, of course. I believe if God had not chosen some, heaven would be empty. My synergist friends believe that God just happened to get lucky that some people were wise enough to cooperate with him.
But we both believe the same end result: believers are saved.
Where we differ is on the question of "Why" there are believers in the first place. My answer is because of free grace. My friends' answer is because of free will.
We arrive at the same conclusion, but take different routes to get there. I think my view gives God more credit and more glory and gives us more reason to worship him. If he hadn't chosen us, we would end up in hell, because our nature is to reject him.
In other words, if He hadn't chosen me, I would have never chosen him. That is the boast of a Calvinist.
The non-Calvinist, to be consistent with his theology, can only say the opposite: If I hadn't chosen God, he wouldn't have chosen me (conditional election)
Does that sit right with you? It doesn't sit right with me.