Originally Posted by brinny View Post
Thank you for your response. Job had more children later, didn't he? Who might the mother of these later children been? Any thoughts on that?
Thank you kindly.
I haven't really thought about it, to be honest.
Job's wife had lost all her children too - when she told Job to "curse God and die" she may well have been speaking out of grief. Job may have known this and forgave her. Or maybe she cursed God and did die. I don't know if women were allowed to divorce their husbands then, so she either died and he remarried, or Job, and God, forgave her.
But Scripture doesn't say.
What comes to mind for me is that she was not under attack as Job was. Yes she lost all 10 children as well, yet she was not suffering as Job was. He had ALSO lost all 10 children, but it did not stop there. Now examining what he did as he heard about his children's sudden and tragic deaths, he does something that indicates why God said what He said about Job from the beginning in the very first verses of the Book of Job.
Yet, for Job he is continuing to be targeted. His wife, most likely, went to stay with her family, because they had lost the house they were living in, as Job was now living on a dung/ash heap in the dump of the city. He was diseased, so much so, that his friends didn't even recognize him. Getting back to his wife, she apparently visited Job at the dung hill and that's when she blasted him with what she said. And to take it further, she was doing this to her husband, who she said in her very own words, was a man of integrity, and she said this in the midst of her very telling words to him that stabbed him in the heart. It was not her intention to, but she just unwittingly testified of Job's character, here:
"Then said his wife unto him, Dost thou still retain thine integrity? curse God, and die." ~Job 2:9
Her character on the other hand is quite telling. She just testified against herself by saying that she had no regard for her husband of integrity, who she knew loved God, nor regard for his God.
There is a Bible verse that says that those who have no regard for God will disappear into obscurity and their name not remembered. Her name is never mentioned. The verse is sorta' the opposite of this verse:
"And if thou draw out thy soul to the hungry, and satisfy the afflicted soul; then shall thy light rise in obscurity, and thy darkness be as the noonday:" ~Isaiah 58:10
His wife did the opposite. She kicked her husband and his God in the teeth, and at a most painful and sorely suffering time for Job, as he sat in the dung heap with sores head to toe that had worms in them.
She condemned herself here, by her very own words.
What also comes to mind is this verse:
"Behold, they shall surely gather together, but not by me: whosoever shall gather together against thee shall fall for thy sake." ~Isaiah 54:15
and this one:
"No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and their righteousness is of me, saith the LORD." ~Isaiah 54:17
Job's wife gathered against him, even as she knew her husband was a man of integrity and maintained his integrity in the midst of inexplicable suffering, yet she gathered against him in the worst way. Her tongue rose against her suffering-beyond-description husband. In essence she had become a curse to him. As it says in Isaiah 54:15 ---> "they shall surely gather together,
but not by me" She was being used by God's adversary and Job's, Satan himself. It wasn't
God who sent her on this mission.
It appears that these were her parting words to Job, and after saying them, she left.
Thank you kindly.