Consider please, the same word being used by God in THESE passages:
Lev 11:10 KJV And all that have not fins and scales in the seas, and in the rivers, of all that move in the waters, and of any living thing which
is in the waters, they
shall be an abomination unto you:
Deuteronomy 17:1 Thou shalt not sacrifice unto the LORD thy God any bullock, or sheep, wherein is blemish, or any evilfavouredness: for that is an abomination unto the LORD thy God.
(Sacrificing an animal that has a blemish is the same thing as a man laying down with a man?)
Deuteronomy 22:5 “The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so
are abomination unto the LORD thy God.”
(Have you seen what fashion has done to the clothes that a woman wears being worn by a man? For that matter, how about a kilt? That is a very masculine garment, especially if worn properly.)
Those are some tow'ebah that have nothing to do with homosexuality, yet God judges them just as harshly.
BTW,
תּוֹעֵבַה tôwʻêbah, to-ay-baw'; or תֹּעֵבַה tôʻêbah; feminine active participle of
H8581; properly, something disgusting (morally), i.e. (as noun) an abhorrence; especially idolatry or (concretely) an idol:—abominable (custom, thing), abomination.
And another BTW, the sin of Sodom was not homosexuality. EZ 16:48-50 says:
48
As I live, saith the Lord GOD, Sodom thy sister hath not done, she nor her daughters, as thou hast done, thou and thy daughters.
49 Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.
50 And they were haughty, and committed abomination before me: therefore I took them away as I saw
good.