Especially since we are on the brink of War with Russia or China, I am getting more anxious about wanting to find somebody.
People say that having opposite-gender bonds and reproduction is a condition only in this life and that when we get to Heaven (assuming that's where any of us go instead of Hell) that part of our life is going to be nullified or abolished because everything would be perfect. If God wanted a plan where everything and everyone was perfect, he could have not created earth at all and just made us in Heaven instead of being born in this world, and get to grow up and experience the pain of things never fulfilled, having this futile attraction to members of the opposite sex. It is useless. God could have also made humans reproduce asexually or made humans completely by himself without other humans if planned, but here we are.
Fun fact: all that "no sex in Heaven " stuff came from one verse, Matthew 22:30, which says:
"For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven."
Christians are just so acclimated to their own culture that they assume that if there is no marriage, there is no sex or romantic attraction. They forget that God's reasons for marriage as we know it are 1: to help us understand love and devotion so we can understand Him better, 2: to help us understand righteous jealousy and why He cannot abide us turning away from Him, and 3: because we flawed humans tent to pick favorites and cannot share the same level of intimacy with everyone as we do with just one special person. Also 4: because health is a problem in this fallen world.
Well, the first two won't be a problem in Heaven, where we literally can talk to God in person, and if we are made perfect, then we will love one another with all our hearts; love may be different, but no weaker for that. And naturally, Heaven won't have disease or any sort of physical maladies.
Ultimately, the phrase "as the angels of God in Heaven" may have been intentionally vague so as not to cause confusion; Zechariah 5:9 describes female angelic figures, so masculine and feminine angels exist, at least. And if it turns out are actually male and female, it would only follow reason that they would breed; note how the "sons of God" lusted after the women of Earth and made the Nephilim; God could have said "demons" but He didn't, and the term "sons of God" is a weird term to use for the demons, who are exiles and generally agreed upon being disowned. This also implies that angels fell apart from the battle with Satan, which opens up a whole new can of worms I'm not going into here. Suffice to say, angels appear to have sex drives.
Here is my personal theory: angels are capable of having open relationships that are every bit as loving and intimate as our marriages, and when we get to Heaven, we shall be the same. After all, why would God just delete sex? He didn't say things were "
very good" until sex was invented when He made Eve, and despite Christian prude culture, the more I study into sex and God's plan for it, the more I see how incredible and sacred it is, and how Satan has tried to corrupt it more than anything else save the Word of God itself. I believe, when we get to Heaven, sex and romance will be made perfect, and each and every relationship will be as deep and meaningful as a lifelong romance.
Hence the phrase "as the angels in Heaven". Promiscuity here on Earth is forbidden because it is destructive rather than constructive. People feel less loved the more lovers they have. So Jesus intentionally leaves the phrase vague so that people won't be confused and say that promiscuity is okay because "that's what goes on in Heaven."
Of course, these are all
my theories, and I could be wrong, and I
know some touchy folks who put the letter of the law before the spirit of it are going to call me a blaspheming heretic, but honestly, God's no prude, He made sex and romance so wonderful for a reason, and I see no reason that they shouldn't exist in Heaven. And I think, as a Christian, I too have the Holy Spirit of God.