No one will be "like Jesus" until the resurrection.
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!
All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God. God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.
2 Cor 5:17-21
We are already like Jesus, not in His eternal resurrected body, but in our hearts, in our love which Jesus has put within us. The message of God, the gospel, is we were never far away from Him, our hearts burn with the very realities that are His, but we need cleansing, we need being made whole, we need purification, we need to understand who we are.
If we maintain our hearts are good enough as they are, defended, proud, self sufficient, able to stand alone, we are lost, because He can do nothing to save us.
Once we realise this is the cross, pain and suffering with love, we realise, it is His eternal love that makes all the pain, suffering and rejection ok, because it is sin in others that causes this, confusion and distortion, seeing the enemy in another and not love at work. Love overcomes, takes the immovable and releases that which He created in us, to new life.
And it is our own hurt used as an excuse to hurt others from with sin gains its root. The enemy are not worthy of respect, they are so evil, my hate is justified, while not seeing we are that enemy, we are condemning ourselves, and the very loathing we keep destroys us while we convince ourselves we are right even though each blow destroys another part of who we are.
So in the Holy Spirit we are like Jesus. The lie of the enemy is to deny this gift through the cross, and continually remind the believer of their struggles and need for growth, picking each issue as a weapon, rather than the next area to see love work through and conquer and build something new.