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sexual addiction

  1. Christsfreeservant

    A Woman's Story

    I know of this woman and her story. She married for love, but as the years passed by, she became sadly aware that her husband was addicted to sexual immorality and idolatry and adultery, and that this had been going on while they were dating and continued after they got married, and never...
  2. Christsfreeservant

    Live to Please God

    “Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God (just as you actually do walk), that you excel still more. For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. For...
  3. Jakechi

    Is it wrong to be disgusted by how overly sexual the world has gotten?

    Rhetorical question, i know it's not wrong to know such a thing. But i need to get something off of my chest. I just am sickened with how normalized it is for people to be lust filled freaks nowadays. It's a major disrespect to women (And men if they're the target of lust) especially those who...
  4. Christsfreeservant

    Discard the gods of Your Ancestors

    Joshua 24:14-15 NIV “Now fear the Lord and serve him with all faithfulness. Throw away the gods your ancestors worshiped beyond the Euphrates River and in Egypt, and serve the Lord. But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve...
  5. Christsfreeservant

    Her Story

    I know this is a subject that not many people want to talk about, but this is a huge problem in the church today in America. It is the “elephant in the room” that no one wants to mention, and so it is not dealt with. But childhood and spousal abuse and sexual addiction and adultery are real...
  6. Christsfreeservant

    Wake Up From Your Sleep!

    I’m sharing this here with you from my time of personal devotions with my Lord Jesus Christ, for your encouragement. Sue Love Romans 13:8-10 ESV “Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the commandments, ‘You shall not commit...
  7. Christsfreeservant

    My Comfort in Affliction

    I’m sharing this here with you from my time of personal devotions with my Lord Jesus Christ, for your encouragement. Sue Love Psalms 119:49-50 ESV “Remember your word to your servant, in which you have made me hope. This is my comfort in my affliction, that your promise gives me life.”...
  8. Christsfreeservant

    Purify Yourselves as God is Pure

    1 John 3 ESV “See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Beloved, we are God's children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he...
  9. Christsfreeservant

    Not the Slightest Suggestion

    Call It What It Is Ephesians 5:3-4 ESV “But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints. Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.” Now, the...
  10. Christsfreeservant

    Reports of Sexual Immorality

    1 Corinthians 5:1-5 ESV “It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that is not tolerated even among pagans, for a man has his father's wife. And you are arrogant! Ought you not rather to mourn? Let him who has done this be removed from among you. “For...
  11. T

    My Testimony: Overcoming Pornography Addiction

    Hey everyone, Im new here but I just wanted to upload a link to my latest video. I have been walking with the Lord for a little under a year now and grew up in a Roman Catholic Church. After an 8 year battle with pornography addiction I was finally able to overcome it and its all glory to Jesus...
  12. Christsfreeservant

    Addendum To "i Married My Dad"

    Jeremiah 7:21-22 ESV “Thus says the Lord of hosts, the God of Israel: ‘Add your burnt offerings to your sacrifices, and eat the flesh. For in the day that I brought them out of the land of Egypt, I did not speak to your fathers or command them concerning burnt offerings and sacrifices.’”...
  13. Christsfreeservant

    Sexual Idolatry

    Jeremiah 17:1-3 ESV “The sin of Judah is written with a pen of iron; with a point of diamond it is engraved on the tablet of their heart, and on the horns of their altars, while their children remember their altars and their Asherim, beside every green tree and on the high hills, on the...
  14. Christsfreeservant

    Not Even a Hint

    Ephesians 5:1-2 ESV Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. The word “therefore,” refers back to something that was said previously. So, when a sentence begins with...
  15. B

    Loss of Salvation? Is God fed up with me?

    I’m in complete and utter despair and ruin. I’m pretty sure that my life is ruin. I was raised in a Christian home. Claimed to be a Christ follower my whole life and felt like I was. I have struggled with my sexual sin most of my life. When I was younger it was masturbation and occasionally...
  16. Zetetica

    Transgender & Lesbian - Part 2 of My Testimony

    Transgender & Lesbian - Part 2 of My Testimony --- Hello, as some may have read from my testimony, I used to be "transgender". That is, I identified as the gender, opposite to the sex I was born. Thanks to God, I did not go through with any sort of hormone treatment or surgery. I'm writing...
  17. torm3nted_soul

    Baruch Hashem! This forum is wonderful...

    Baruch Hashem.! God is so good! I searched goggle for a place to talk with believers. Specifically, for my addiction but for other reasons, too. It is wonderful to fellowship with believers. A little about me: I am a 44 year old man who is a Messianic Jewish believer. My parents have been...
  18. torm3nted_soul

    I suffer from pedophilia and it torments me daily...

    I am a twice convicted sex offender who spent almost 22 years (combined) in prison. I was released a year ago and have been in treatment since. I make no excuses and take full responsibility for my abusive actions. Simply put, I am attracted to boys 9-13 (14 & 15 if they look younger) and girls...
  19. T

    How do I break to my Mum that I struggle with masturbation?

    I'm going to reveal to my Mum today that I have a horrible habit because I need someone else's help. I know she won't react badly, I'm glad she's so close and understands some of my problems. But I always find it hard to speak. I started yesterday, and then found it so hard she suggested we...
  20. ChristIsSovereign

    Ongoing Sexual Issues

    Before I became a genuine Christian, my sexual appetite was absolutely wanton. It drove me to the point that I almost became a sex offender but God cut me short of that because He gave me another chance because He loves me. Yet I still lust a lot. I lust especially at night and I pound my...