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sexual addiction

  1. Dropout_Theologian

    Overcoming Sexual Addiction - The Twelve Steps

    The following in an excerpt from Sexaholics Anonymous. THE TWELVE STEPS OF SEXAHOLICS ANONYMOUS 1. We admitted that we were powerless over lust—that our lives had become unmanageable. 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. 3. Made a decision to turn...
  2. Christsfreeservant

    I'm Writing a Book

    For those of you who don't know me, I've been on CF since 2006. I write on Daily Devotions, under Christian Growth (Christians only). Recently the Lord Jesus has had me open up and talk about my life as the spouse of a sex addict, and now he is leading me to write a book on this subject, and to...
  3. sunestauromai

    How I Got Here

    Many years ago, my wife expressed to me that she thought I was following Satan in my life and I was headed to hell. As a good Christian man, so I thought, I was stunned and offended by such a bold and derogatory statement, and challenged her on it. Her evidence included my lifetime use of...
  4. Christsfreeservant

    The Walking Wounded

    This phrase, “the walking wounded” came into my mind within the past few days, and it has stayed with me. I had some idea of what it meant, but not entirely, so I Googled it to find its meaning. And, I found these definitions: · “People who have been injured in a battle or major accident...
  5. Christsfreeservant

    Just Say NO!

    Some of you may have wondered why I do what I do, day in and day out, i.e. why I write these devotions, and why I talk so much about walking in the Spirit and not walking according the flesh. You may have wondered, too, why I am so passionate and so persistent in getting out the true message of...
  6. Christsfreeservant

    An Addict's Spouse

    What I am about to share with you, I share with permission from my husband of 45 years. He has now made public his sexual addiction, and he states that he now wants complete deliverance. To be perfectly honest, though, I have heard those same words come out of his mouth many times, but they were...
  7. Christsfreeservant

    Tolerance of Jezebel

    Sunday, March 5, 2017, 9:14 a.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Should I Not Preach Jesus.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Revelation 2:18-29 (NASB). Eyes Like Fire (v. 18) “And to the angel of the church in Thyatira write: The Son of God, who has eyes like a flame of...
  8. Christsfreeservant

    Acts of Immorality

    Saturday, March 4, 2017, 10:13 p.m. – The Lord Jesus put in mind the song “Should I Not Preach Jesus.” Speak, Lord, your words to my heart. I read Revelation 2:12-17 (NASB). “And to the angel of the church in Pergamum write: The One who has the sharp two-edged sword says this: ‘I know where...
  9. V

    Struggling with sexual sin and also unwanted thoughts PLEASE HELP ME GOD

    Hi guys my name is Yemi and I am a girl. I currently have Ocd and i feel like it has changed me a lot for the better but mainly the worse. I struggle with sexual sin so so much and I constantly feel like I'm always sorry to say this but horny. I'm really sorry for that word but that's what...
  10. reborn_catholic_guy

    Hello from a newly joined Catholic male member

    Hello, I'm a middle aged reborn Catholic man who's just joined this community. What brings me to these forums is my faith-filled recovery from my long term sexual addiction struggles reinforced with the symptoms of borderline personality disorder (BPD) and narcissistic personality disorder...