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  1. T

    God's Plan for me ...

    I am new to this site and wasn't sure where to post my question. Although I have always believed in God I am new to Christianity. Long story short I am confused if what I think is God's plan for me and my BF? or if I'm just grasping at straws. This man has literally been in love with me since...
  2. M

    Heartbreak

    I dont know forum etiquette, so please dont go mental if iv posted this in the wrong place. As the title suggests, Im currently dealing with 'heartbreak'. It isnt lost on me that this is pathetic, but the sad reality is that for 6 months now iv felt worse (and more confused) than i have in my...
  3. Elvis1234

    More afraid than ever before

    Hi guys. This will be a long winded post because I am really going through it right now and I need help somehow. Some backstory: "Saved" in late 2009 or so. My life changed in a big way. Turned from many sinful ways, began really seeking the LORD, learning a lot very quickly. Growing in faith...
  4. N

    [moved] Need advice and prayer

    Hey, so I'm new here. I posted in this thread because I didn't know where else to. If you're reading this, thank you very much. I appreciate that you're willing to hear what I have to say. I've talked about this with many other people, but decided to present this to a new crowd. So, here's...
  5. J

    I'm confused...

    I have such a... Such a... This... Okay I'll get down to the meat and potatoes. When ever I hear the words "Power, Jesus Christ, God, Holy Spirit" I get massive shivers in my back and head... Then I have this uncanny "ability" of such... Such strategy. I can formulate strategies so well. And I...
  6. AmusingMargaret

    Why is it...

    Why is it, do you think, that when you are most confused and hurt that God seems to be His most silent? What about the times you pray and pray...and pray...for an issue, and there's just no relief? No freedom from the chains? Does it ever seem that to you that we are just groping around...
  7. L

    Sex before marriage

    I've been troubled by this for a few weeks now. I lost my virginity a few weeks ago and I've been so panic. He is also a Christian (he is 25, I'm 23). When I was with him, I though he was the one that God sent to me and we are going to get married. He had many sexual experiences before. I was...
  8. P

    Better safe than sorry. Unsure on sins/ confession

    I'm hoping someone can offer some advice on this. ..trying to learn about Christianity theres so much to it! Do you think God would mind if I confessed to something that I myself thought was a sin but to God it wasn't actually seen as a sin ..maybe I had misunderstood or been hard on myself. Do...