Hello Brother ExTiff, welcome and nice to meet you here. Some comments below for your consideration.
Where in all of ROMANS 14 does it say that these scriptures are talking about God's 4th commandment? Are you reading into the scriptures something that they are not talking about? Romans 14 is talking about judging others in relation to eating and not eating connected to days that MEN ESTEEEM over other days. ROMANS 14 is not talking about days that God ESTEEMS and it is not talking about God's 4th Commandment Sabbath. God's WORD says that the things which are HIGHLY ESTEEMED AMONG MEN are an abomination in the sight of God *LUKE 16:15.
Since we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ, both Sabbath keepers, Lord's day Keepers, all days keepers and no days keepers, by what right do Seventh Day Adventists and other legalistic, wrath avoiding, fearful, faithless, fellow servants of the Lord, consider themselves less likely to fall under judgment than anyone else?
Only those who BELIEVE and FOLLOW God's WORD are his people. That means God's people are all those who BELIEVE and FOLLOW all the truth of his WORD that God has revlealed to them at any given point in time and that God's people are in EVERY CHURCH if they are BELIEVING and FOLLOWING God's WORD as God has revealed it to them.
God's WORD teaches that we are to CONTINUE in God's WORD in order to be God's disciples and we shall KNOW THE TRUTH of God's WORD and the truth shall make us free from SIN *JOHN 8:31-36. In times of IGNORANCE GOD does not holf us acccountable until we receive a KNOWLEDGE of God's truth as we continue in his WORD *ACTS 17:30-31; JOHN 12:47-48; JAMES 4:17. When God gives us a KNOWLEDGD of his truth then he expects is to BELIEVE and FOLLOW him as God's WORD is revealed to us *ACTS 17:30; ACTS 5:29.
If we REJECT God's WORD then we become UNBELIEVERS and will be judged by the very WORD of God that we reject *JOHN 12:47-48.
God's 4th Commandment is one of the 10 Commandments that give us the KNOWLEDGE of GOOD and EVIL; SIN and RIGHTEOUSNESS * ROMANS 3:20; ROMANS 7:7; 1 JOHN 3:4; PSALMS 119:172. GOD'S WORD says that if we KNOWINGLY break ANY ONE of God's 10 Commandments we stand guilty before God of sin *JAMES 2:10-11. All those who CONTINUE in KNOWN UNREPENTANT SIN will not enter the KINGDOM of HEAVEN *HEBREWS 10:26-27 because they reject the gift of God's dear son *ROMANS 6:23.
GOD knows that many follow SUNDAY worship out of IGNORANCE and they do not KNOW any better. God is calling his people wherever they may be to come out from following the teachings and traditions of men to worship him in SPIRIT and in TRUTH according to his WORD *JOHN 4:23-24. JESUS says those who KNOWINGLY follow the teachings and traditions of men that break the commandments of GOD are not following God *MATTHEW 15:3-9.
There is not one scripture in all of God's WORD that says God's 4th Commandment has been ABOLISHED and we are now commanded to keep SUNDAY as a HOLY DAY. Sunday worship is a tradition and teaching of man that has lead many to break the commandments of God.
Who should we BELIEVE and FOLLOW the teachings and traditions of men or the Word of God? Who should we believe the Words of men or the Word of God *ROMANS 3:4; ACTS 5:29? ONLY God's WORD is true and we should BELIEVE and FOLLOW it. Anything else will lead us away from GOD to UNBELIEF and away from God's KINGDOM.
Are they relying upon God's Grace or upon their absolute ability to 'keep the rules set in stone'?
EPHESIANS 2:8-9 [8], For by grace are you saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9], Not of works, lest any man should boast.
WHAT IS GRACE FOR?
ROMANS 1:5, By whom we have received GRACE and apostleship, FOR OBEDIENCE TO THE FAITH among all nations, for his name.
ROMANS 16:26 But now is made manifest, and by the scriptures of the prophets, according to the commandment of the everlasting God, made known to all nations for the OBEDIENCE OF FAITH
DOES FAITH ABOLISH GOD'S LAW?
ROMANS 3:31 [31], Do we then ABOLISH THE LAW THROUGH FAITH? GOD FORBID: YES, WE ESTABLISH THE LAW.
That is why the Church assembled on Sunday, the first day of the week, The Lord's day, in which He rose again to life in confirmation of the fact that the sins of the world are no longer held against them.
God's people met EVERYDAY of the WEEK *ACTS 2:47-48. This does not make every day of the week a HOLY day or is it one of God's 10 commandments that give us the KNOWLEDGE of what sin is *ROMANS 3:20; ROMANS 7:7; 1 JOHN 3:4; EXODUS 20:1-17.
God's WORD says that the LORD'S DAY is the SABBATH DAY not Sunday *MATTHEW 12:8. There is no scripture in God's WORD saying that the first day of the week is the LORD'S DAY. This is a teaching and traditions of men that some use outside of God's WORD to justify Sunday keeping because there is no scriptures that say God's 4th Commandments is abolished and we are now commanded to keep Sunday as a Holy day.
Nice to meet you.
God bless.