I am going to try to hold back my usual tirade on this issue and keep this short
The idea that women are commonly guilty of TEMPTING men is the stupidest thing a cruel, selfish, egotistical, self righteous, sexist man ever put on women.
It is based on the idea that these pure, holy, good men just can't help their self, that you in your dark ways, with your swaying hips and devilish good looks just overpowered them and that YOU are responsible for their lust.
This idea is sown by incompetent selfish men who think women are objects to be desired and that they owe no responsibility for their own decisions or desires.
When Paul was talking about being kind to other Christians in their weakness he was talking about not offending them by doing what they think is sin... he wasn't saying that a woman is to blame for a man's lust, that you in your womanly power have control over a man, that you just tear his control away and make him sin. That such an idea is relevant comes from a culture of men who dis-value and dishonor women. Making them sexual objects, and passing the responsibility or blame of their own holiness onto the sexual object.
That anything this married man does or wants is your fault is absurd, it's total madness.