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Recent content by VT_Boy

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    New Spouse before kids?

    Is he a christian?Some people disagree on divorce and remarriage. Just because you are divorced, doesn't mean your ex has the right to neglect his own children.He has no excuse in my opinion to not help raise your children even though you are divorce. He might not be there as much as you and...
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    Question About the Ministry

    There's a lot of difference between preaching and pastoring. A lot of people can preach a sermon but it takes much more to pastor people of all ages, backgrounds, married or not etc.... If you're serious about becoming a pastor, do you not want to do your best to help your members? Why not learn...
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    News

    Congrats!
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    Frustrated

    Just remember all our job is to "plant the seed". God does the convicting and the saving. Sometimes it takes years for it to show any results. If you think the way you share the gospel might be flawed, get a good trained person to practice on and give you any helps to improve it.
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    Feel like giving up......

    Praying for you bro! Hang in there.
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    Pants on Women

    I have no problem with women wearing pants or any clothes made for women that are modest. Even though I'm a guy, I've hear women talking about guys not being modest in what they wear too and there is usually a double standard. There's too many things that a woman does that isn't modest wearing a...
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    Catholic questions

    If you haven't already left then do it. There's other groups that help others that should line up with your beliefs.
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    I'm kinda new,

    Welcome to CF Look for a good Bible teaching church that has Bible studies to help you. Listen to good Bible teachers on TV and the radio like OnePlace.
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    FBC Online

    I applaud your effort in trying to reach people online. Why not put a disclaimer on the website that says, "This website is not a true replacement for a real church for a variety of reasons" (already listed in this thread) and encourage them to find a local Bible teaching church to aid them in...
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    What is the minimum age for baptism?

    It really depends on if a child understands what and why they are being baptized for. I was baptized at 9 years old. My parents made sure I understood what I was doing. I've seen other kids though, who later on wasn't sure if they understood when they was younger to be baptized as a teen or adult.
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    What are your thoughts on Mother Teresa?

    This post might not be a debating one but you're still not following the rules of the Baptist forum to only post questions or fellowship post as a non-Baptist member. Baptists are not perfect, same with your denomination or any other denomination. There's different beliefs even in the Baptist...
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    Warning of Judgment

    Vote for Rick and Bubba for president. They're pro-life. :D Rick & Bubba
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    Church Discipline

    Same at my church
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    What are your thoughts on Mother Teresa?

    Just because a person did loads of good deeds doesn't mean they're a Christian or going to heaven. There's loads of good moral people in the world. God only knows whether she was or not. Matthew 7:21-23 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one...
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    Fred Phelps

    Again, I say go watch the movie. It's hard to argue with the facts & they prove what I'm saying. No one was holding a gun to their heads and force them to say what they did and do what they did. I use Netflix to watch the movie. I wanted to stop watching the movie before it was halfway through...