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Recent content by revjayman

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    Purpose(s) of marriage

    Here are the five biblical purposes you should keep balanced in your marriage: 1. You and your spouse were both planned for God's pleasure. How would your marriage immediately change if you understood deeply that your spouse was created for God's pleasure? Or if your spouse understood deeply...
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    hard to trust...

    It sounds like you are still experiencing the pain of your past childhood that is spilling into your marriage. Forgiveness is very important, have you forgiven your bibological father for what he did? Rev
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    God's will

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    Don't Want to have sex with hubby

    What your feeling is normal and you and your husband need to spend time talking to each other about these issues openly and get them out, otherwise walls will come up. Your marriage needs healing. Willingly make a re-commitment to each other. This means a new reservoir of TRUST. The initial...
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    Anyone know of any good marriage retreats or conferences?

    There are a lot of different type of marriage conferences, and the best one out there is called 'The Marriage Course'. It is split up into eight 3 hours sesssions. Ricky and Silla Lee are the originators. Me and my wife took it at a local church. http://themarriagecourse.org Rev
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    Is it possible for God to save any marriage?

    The question is, "What will you do?" Surrender to the pressures of the world's way of thinking and the emotions of the moment? Or make a choice based on confidence in the eternal truths of Scripture? The stakes are higher than one may realize at the time. One choice...
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    Being married is AWESOME!

    For once a positive post about a great marriage! My marriage is also aweomse. I am been married for 17 year with 3 blessed children and lead a marriage enrichment ministry. The key which you discovered is having 'Jesus' the center of the marriage. Here are the keys that has made our marriage...
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    Is this God will?

    The pain and suffering we experience in this life is becuase of sin being entered into this world, not by our own fault. God gives each of us the gift and power of 'choice'. We choosee which way to go and God will provides the outcome, provided that we are in His moral will. I don't believe that...
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    Marriage Fitness??

    The best one out there is a seminar called 'The Marraige Course'. Various churches around the country do the seminar. This course is unqiue becuase you get one on one interaction with your spouse in a control setting. Nick and Sila Lee are the authors of the material and they are fabulous...
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    Help for my marriage

    You have to make a choice and step back from your career. Wealth and success cannot compare to joy and God's kingdom. If you choose to go outside God's moral will, what joy you have will be replaced with guilt, depression, high anexity, and other emotional problems and will eventually lead you...
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    Hello new with a question

    I personally believe that the wife should not work outside the home. That burden belongs to the husband, but there is a reason she may be suggesting that and you need to find out why. There is probally something missing in your marriage and a need that is not being met. Change your pase and...
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    My wife won't talk to me

    It is never to late brother! ;-) Now that you know what it is, now is the fun part! Spoil her, give her tons of attention, tell her you love her, give her a hug and kiss, take her out to dinner. More importantly tell her that you are sorry for the way things have been and that you are going to...
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    Advice from the guys

    You have to take a look are your finances are pray as a couple for what would be the best as a family. If the job takes time away from your family, I would wait for something to come along. Finding the right job that you really enjoy is not a easier task. I have been fortunate enough that I...
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    Possible Demonic Marriage

    First let me say that demons and demonic forces are for real and I experienced what your wife is experiencing and it is a serious situation. What would be interested is how she got to that point. She may have tampered with something with the occult that opened the door up. Before I was...
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    Bringing Romance Back into Marriage

    Plan a daily Pow-wow time! Whether it is coffee in the morning,coke over a mid-morning break, afternoon tea (coffee!) or bedtime cuddles, set aside a time for the two of you to keep up with one another! Share your plans, dreams, vision, struggles, concerns, ideas. Get to REALLY know one...