durangodawood
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Bella you are a model of self control and self direction. I wish everyone could make the leap to where you are. But unwinding bad habits and developing good ones is a long road for..... probably most people. Especially when they lack good role models around them.I’ve never been attached to social media. I suspect it’s because I came online when chat was popular and got it out of my system. By the time social media arrived my desire to communicate was gone. I was all talked out. I use it professionally but outside of that I stick to educational content. I’m very intentional about my feed. If it isn’t adding to my knowledge or helping me develop a skill or improving my work or resources I don’t follow them because it’s built to distract and I know it. Why would I go along?
When I saw the promos on the metaverse I prioritized life outside of this realm and chose to live counterculturally. The more technology invades our lives the more I do otherwise. I used to play a bingo game and saw how much money was being spent on the platform and quit. I chided myself for being there and reminded myself I invest in the technology but don’t partake.
I view them all as tools and they have their place but it doesn’t supersede daily living or human relationships. It’s important to be able to cut things off and that’s a quality I require in myself. When you see it for what it is you’ll avoid the snare or become a slave if you don’t. You have to bring yourself under subjection to survive this age. That’s easiest when self-preservation is a natural instinct. You have less difficulty saying no and denying yourself. The christian correlation is self-control.
~bella
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