After a conversation came up in the "What's on your mind?" thread (What's on your mind?) I think we can have a discussion from both genders about our experiences being single (whether positive or negative).
I'll start with my experience:
I was saved when I was 19. There was only one single guy at church. Long story short, he picked someone else. I've tried online dating. It was unsuccessful and I am repulsed by it now.
I will admit that I was clueless and foolish back then on what I wanted in a guy. I focused on looks instead of personality, values, and beliefs. That's one of the reasons why I wasn't able to get a man back then.
It's hard to find single men at church. They date young and marry young. Even though I was young myself, I had missed the boat on getting a man (however I do believe God has someone special for me in the future, so it's not a permanent thing). I know some churches are against having a singles group for various reasons. The last church I was a member of, their explanation was "we have more important things to focus on". This was coming from a big and rich church. I tried another church that did have a singles group, but stopped going due to a non-Biblical teaching they promoted in a sermon.
I did date a guy that was not a Christian last year. I know that's wrong. We had started out as friends then slowly crossed the line of being more than friends. I regret being with him and I have repented. As of now I am not dating.
I'll start with my experience:
I was saved when I was 19. There was only one single guy at church. Long story short, he picked someone else. I've tried online dating. It was unsuccessful and I am repulsed by it now.
I will admit that I was clueless and foolish back then on what I wanted in a guy. I focused on looks instead of personality, values, and beliefs. That's one of the reasons why I wasn't able to get a man back then.
It's hard to find single men at church. They date young and marry young. Even though I was young myself, I had missed the boat on getting a man (however I do believe God has someone special for me in the future, so it's not a permanent thing). I know some churches are against having a singles group for various reasons. The last church I was a member of, their explanation was "we have more important things to focus on". This was coming from a big and rich church. I tried another church that did have a singles group, but stopped going due to a non-Biblical teaching they promoted in a sermon.
I did date a guy that was not a Christian last year. I know that's wrong. We had started out as friends then slowly crossed the line of being more than friends. I regret being with him and I have repented. As of now I am not dating.