You are never going to please everyone.
People are all different in various ways.
All people are different understandings and not everyone will be on the same page together.
Except one way.
Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ to be saved to the kingdom of God -> Jesus Christ has already paid for your sins, died on the cross once for all people -> God rose Jesus Christ up again on the third day -> If you believe this in your heart you will be saved.
Saved ? From my Sins? -> That was paid for already.
Saved ? unto the Kingdom of God -> Yes.
Anyone who believes -> accepts faith through the Lord Jesus Christ are going to be saved, -> They are saved when they believe and they are given the holy spirit -> Jesus Christ baptizes in the holy spirit -> Jesus Christ and God will work on their heart and mind -> When they continue to seek God's will, spiritually understanding, and increased in the knowledge of God and the Lord Jesus Christ.
What hope is there in God? A lot of promises made.
Your choice to believe them or not is up to you:
The Promises that God provides freely are :
Relationship with God, and the Lord Jesus Christ;
Resurrection from the dead, Peace with God being justified by Faith,
You have the right to an inheritance in partaking and sharing in God's Kingdom now by faith which would make you a Child of God, or Son or Daughter of God if you walk by the spirit that is given,
You are promised that God will never leave you, or forsake you.
You are promised that you can have a prayerful relationship with God who loves and cares about everything going on in your life, and desires for you to cast your worries and burdens on Him,
You are promised freedom of the bondage of sin, and
the ability to overcome temptations when they are presented to you God will show you a way out,
You are promised a renewed mind and a renewed heart by God,
deliverance from darkness into light,
You are also forgiven of your sins: Past; present: future and have freedom of Christ in you but you are not to use that to Sin willfully but instead live by the spirit -> For when someone loves God they will turn their will towards Him rather than their own self-will to serve themselves (God can work on your heart through this)
You are promised if you live by the spirit to have kindness, joy, peace, love, gentleness, faithfulness.
There are all of the promises of God that can be named from just off the top of the holy spirit/spirit of Christ with-in me. You can freely look any of these up and hopefully you will find each of them.
Faith comes by hearing the word of God.
My encouragement to you is to go and seek the Lord Jesus Christ, and also read what you are reading in Context, don't get lost in the wisdom of Man, and what they have to say. Go look for yourself, and test and see if what people are saying is true or not.
What matters in this life is your Faith -> Love for God, and Love for Others.
There are rewards God is going to give based on your faith and love towards God and towards Others. When you receive the spiritual body given by God after this life at your resurrection.
Enjoy your relationship with God, and understand you are called in to a inhertience to have right now on this earth through belief,
your sins are forgiven evenmore so after the fact of
knowing they have been paid for.
Though in understanding you are forgiven through your life of mistakes as you walk with God it is not a license to sin and not care about God -> because showing love for God is living by the spirit, and being loving towards Others.
Take care, God bless, and having a great rest of the evening!