Dislike for Revealing clothes

[Danielwright2311]

How so? It's very similar to your alleged violation by others choice in attire causing you to think in ways you would rather not.

Because music is not a sin, lust is.

 

[Nithavela]

How? I am not tempting myself into sin, so that makes no sense.

What solution do you suggest? Mandatory Burkas?

When a woman that isn't dressed modestly walks around and you can't control yourself, your own lack of control is at fault, not the scantly clad woman. Your weakness is not the common denominator.

 

[Desk trauma]

Because music is not a sin, lust is.

Oh, I see, the things that go against your ideas and cause you concern are special but the rest of us just have to suck it up.

 

[Desk trauma]

Yes, we are to do what we can to keep from sin, and that also calls for us to ask the public not to offend us.

When the reply to your request is no, what then?

 

[comana]

What solution do you suggest? Mandatory Burkas?

When a woman that isn't dressed modestly walks around and you can't control yourself, your own lack of control is at fault, not the scantly clad woman. Your weakness is not the common denominator.

Exactly! Lust comes from within oneself. if someone is tempted by what they see then it seems it falls on the tempted to look away and find a new focus.

 

[Willie T]

There is way too much, "I don't like it, so you can't do it." in this 'religion' we profess.

 

[Danielwright2311]

What solution do you suggest? Mandatory Burkas?

When a woman that isn't dressed modestly walks around and you can't control yourself, your own lack of control is at fault, not the scantly clad woman. Your weakness is not the common denominator.

No lol, only to dress properly and not show the desirable parts of the body.

Girls now a days dont care what they show and that is the problem, nothing I can do about it, but pray.

How am I at fault? I never asked any of them to dress like this, I never wanted them to, I never needed them to, but they do it to tease men on purposes. Thats not my fault, I'm human created with the same desire as all men.

 

[Danielwright2311]

Oh, I see, the things that go against your ideas and cause you concern are special but the rest of us just have to suck it up.

Its not my ideas, its the worlds ideas, how is it my ideas?

Its Gods laws and ideas, remember where you are, its a Christian fourms.

Dont be suppressed when we put Gods laws in the facts.

 

[Danielwright2311]

When the reply to your request is no, what then?

Then I pray for them

 

[comana]

No lol, only to dress properly and not show the desirable parts of the body.

Girls now a days dont care what they show and that is the problem, nothing I can do about it, but pray.

How am I at fault? I never asked any of them to dress like this, I never wanted them to, I never needed them to, but they do it to tease men on purposes. Thats not my fault, I'm human created with the same desire as all men.

But you can control your thoughts. Seeing whatever it is on a woman that you desire does not equal an invitation indulge your desires. You can look away.

 

[Tanj]

No lol, only to dress properly and not show the desirable parts of the body.

Girls now a days dont care what they show and that is the problem, nothing I can do about it, but pray.

How am I at fault? I never asked any of them to dress like this, I never wanted them to, I never needed them to, but they do it to tease men on purposes. Thats not my fault, I'm human created with the same desire as all men.

The fact you think they are teasing actually is your fault.

Then I pray for them

Seems more like praying for yourself, as an alcoholic might.

 

[Desk trauma]

Its not my ideas, its the worlds ideas, how is it my ideas?

Your ideas of appropriate attire.

Its Gods laws and ideas, remember where you are, its a Christian fourms.

Whatever the source you have adopted them and for some reason expect other to abide by them to help you.

Dont be suppressed when we put Gods laws in the facts.

That you hold such ideas is not a surprise to me Im just wondering why your ideas are so important that others need to abide by them rather then you having to put in the work and develop control of thoughts that distress you.

 

[Desk trauma]

How am I at fault?

How you react and think is your responsibility.

I'm human created with the same desire as all men.

If those desires distress you, learn to control them.

 

[Danielwright2311]

But you can control your thoughts. Seeing whatever it is on a woman that you desire does not equal an invitation indulge your desires. You can look away.

Yes, and I do look away.

But this fight is not for me, its for the other men who are week and have strong desire for wemon.

You miss the point where I might know how to look away, but others dont.

 

[Danielwright2311]

The fact you think they are teasing actually is your fault.



Seems more like praying for yourself, as an alcoholic might.

I know there teasing, most of them even say they are, Its from lack of attention, they need attention and to get it they dress like they do.

 

[Danielwright2311]

The fact you think they are teasing actually is your fault.



Seems more like praying for yourself, as an alcoholic might.

Im not the one who is dressing to attract attention, so I dont need the prayer.

 

[Danielwright2311]

How you react and think is your responsibility.



If those desires distress you, learn to control them.

I know how to control them, others dont.

 

[comana]

I know how to control them, others dont.

You are only accountable for your own thoughts. If you can control them then you are fine. Let others thought sins be dealt with by themselves.

I think we were addressing your statement that you are not at fault for your temptation when a woman dresses in a way you find provocative. Regardless of the woman's intent you and you alone are at fault for any thought sins you may have.

 

[Danielwright2311]

You are only accountable for your own thoughts. If you can control them then you are fine. Let others thought sins be dealt with by themselves.

I think we were addressing your statement that you are not at fault for your temptation when a woman dresses in a way you find provocative. Regardless of the woman's intent you and you alone are at fault for any thought sins you may have.

Thats where your wrong, period.

If I should change then so should they, why is it just my fault?

I dont get you, you are defending sin filled actions by wemon, It not my fault, at all, like I said, if they dress like that, and walk around like that, and we men see it, then we are naturally going to be tempted into lust.

If its a natural human nature event then You can not blame the ones who are being tempted, thats back wards thinking.

We are not machines that can be programed into your demanding ways.

The more in time we go the more back wards we become.

Whats wrong with teaching girls to dress correct? whats wrong with that? why is it so bad to have respect for how you look and dress? Why is it so wrong to have morality?

Instead of blaming me for a natural human feeling , instead, address the real problem by teaching them to dress properly.

 

[Desk trauma]

Thats where your wrong, period.

If I should change then so should they, why is it just my fault?

Because all that is within your power to control is your self and your reactions. It's not other responsibilities to live their lives so as to make yours easier.

If its a natural human nature event then You can not blame the ones who are being tempted, thats back wards thinking.

The backwards thinking is that others need to change their behavior to make it easier for you to control your self and not feel ways you would rather not.