Here is your misunderstanding, like all SUNday churches. Did you know that it is impossible for SUNday denominations to teach obedience? I am not judging, nor condemning, but not obeying the forth commandment is like saying if we break one we are guilty of all, so in this respect it is impossible for anybody to teach obedience when they are not being obedient.
I will share with you the verses that tell us we must obey if we want to be saved. And the verses that say if we are disobedient we will be lost.
OBEY
Ac:5:29: Then Peter and the other apostles answered and said, We ought to obey God rather than men.
Ac:5:32: And we are his witnesses of these things; and so is also the Holy Ghost, whom God hath given to them that obey him.
Ro:2:8: But unto them that are contentious, and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, indignation and wrath,
Ro:6:12: Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof.
Ro:6:16: Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?
Ro:6:17: But God be thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you.
Ro:10:16: But they have not all obeyed the gospel. For Esaias saith, Lord, who hath believed our report?
2Th:1:8: In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ:
2Th:3:14: And if any man obey not our word by this epistle, note that man, and have no company with him, that he may be ashamed.
Ti:3:1: Put them in mind to be subject to principalities and powers, to obey magistrates, to be ready to every good work,
Heb:5:9: And being made perfect, he became the author of eternal salvation unto all them that obey him;
Heb:11:8: By faith Abraham, when he was called to go out into a place which he should after receive for an inheritance, obeyed; and he went out, not knowing whither he went.
1Pe:4:17: For the time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God?
OBEDIENCE
Ro:1:5: By whom we have received grace and apostleship, for obedience to the faith among all nations, for his name:
Ro:5:19: For as by one man's disobedience many were made sinners, so by the obedience of one shall many be made righteous.
Ro:16:26: But now is made manifest, and by the scriptures of the prophets, according to the commandment of the everlasting God, made known to all nations for the obedience of faith:
1Co:14:34: Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.
2Co:10:5: Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;
2Co:10:6: And having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience, when your obedience is fulfilled.
Heb:5:8: Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered;
1Pe:1:2: Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through sanctification of the Spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied.
DISOBEDIENCE
Eph:5:6: Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience.
Col:3:6: For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:
Heb:2:2: For if the word spoken by angels was stedfast, and every transgression and disobedience received a just recompence of reward;
Please read and study these things. These are things a Christian must do or not do, and if they do or do not do them they will be lost. We do not obey to be saved, we obey because we are saved. Also do a study on righteous and righteousness. If we are not righteous today we will not be saved. I am in no wise referring to self righteousness that Paul states in Romans 3:10. I am referring to the righteousness John is referring to in 1John:3:7: "Little children, let no man deceive you: he that doeth righteousness is righteous, even as he is righteous." How do we "do righteousness"? By teaching that we do not have to obey God? Or by teaching that God, the creator of the universe has NO guidelines (law) for His children to follow, while all worldly governments do? The main reason SUNday worshipers try to remove God's holy just and good law is because of the forth commandment. God does not judge us for what we do not know, nor are convicted of. That includes the forth commandment. BUT if the Comforter does convict us of a sin in our lives and we do not obey that conviction we will be lost. We must be following every conviction the Comforter reveals to our heart. We might be able to hide convictions from our friends and family but not from God. To say that "I am saved" and I do not have to obey si a seriouys matter. This is what I try to wake people up to because it is the most corrupted doctrine in the bible. Satan wants us to have 99% of the truth. This doctrine of salvation is the 1% that he has attacked because without the truth about salvation we are lost.
Do you actually believe that you could break any of the TEN commandments if you love the way Jesus said to, agape? If you really love God with your whole heart like Jesus said to could you break any of the first four commandments? If you really love your neighbor AS YOURSELF could you break one of the last six commandments? It is impossible to break any of God's perfect law of love, which is the TEN commandments, if we love.
Those who keep arguing against the "law" have no idea what a "law" is for. Many will say that we are to be obedient to Jesus commands which He gave in the sermon on the mount. That is part of it. He also told the rich young ruler to obey God's TEN commandments as He quoted some of them. God's TEN commandments never have saved anybody. God's holy just and good TEN commandments are a blessing, which only point out sin. The TEN commandments are a mirror. If we think that when we accept Jesus all our sins past, present, and future are gone miraculously we are not reading and studying our bibles. Paul tells us in Romans:3:24&25: "Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus: Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;" Only the sins which the Holy Spirit convicts us of and we confess and repent from are taken away. The Holy Spirit cannot convict us of sins we have not committed yet. Sin is the transgression of the law 1 John 3:4.