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Your last date

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My last date? Gosh. It's been a while, lol. :asd: I'm actually embarrassed to say. :D Otherwise the last time I hung out with a guy was at a bonfire a few weeks ago, and that was just a church thing. Not just to hang out with any one specific guy, lol.
Do you have feelings for the guy?
 
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I got invited to another potluck at church. Last week got invited to a trivia night at another church. But I didn't go.

...I don't know I just don't really like potlucks. Not sure if will go or not, as nobody's gonna pick me up. I don't think dad will go with me.
Guys don't invite me anywhere. :-( . Or maybe they did but I missed it.
 
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I got invited to another potluck at church. Last week got invited to a trivia night at another church. But I didn't go.

...I don't know I just don't really like potlucks. Not sure if will go or not, as nobody's gonna pick me up. I don't think dad will go with me.
Guys don't invite me anywhere. :-( . Or maybe they did but I missed it.
If you were closer I'd probably invite you :)
It's always the wrong time, place, or season for me lol but I've had people offer the same to me.
At least there is some honesty, but I wish things would line up for me better.
 
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My last date was in the Spring of 2014. The guy took me to Starbucks and told me he was an extreme Calvinist and wanted to get married within the next year. He quoted scripture after scripture to me about marriage. He gave me his number and I never called him after that.
 
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My last date was in the Spring of 2014. The guy took me to Starbucks and told me he was an extreme Calvinist and wanted to get married within the next year. He quoted scripture after scripture to me about marriage. He gave me his number and I never called him after that.
That's so sad! Weird that he would come on so strong.
 
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I wonder about girls who ask for my number but do not call. Why ask?

They are telling you that they would like you to call them...they are hoping you are going to take their number too. Girls tend to get braver in a crowd of girlfriends than alone in our homes. Chances are a number of those women have actually held your number in their hand along with a phone and then talked themselves out of calling. They may even go through this process multiple times before throwing away the number.
 
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Where did you go and what did you do on your last date?

for this thread, 'date' is defined as going out with someone of the opposite sex.
My last date was in March of 2005. We had lunch together.
 
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Oh thats funny this thread go revived.
Well an old workmate who is a guy came over and visited me the other day, and was gonna invite him in for a cup of tea but never got round to it lol. He just randomly wanted to come over as had a christmas present for me.

I just showed him round my garden, and then got a txt asking if I was single. I didnt reply. Well I dont know what to say really. Yes, go away? Or, yes, why do you ask?

Hes a divorcee or separated with children and way too old for me anyway, but maybe should just say 'whats it to you?' I dont know. Its a minefield.
 
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I took a girl out for coffee then I cooked dinner for her and her parents

then me and her just hung out for a bit

the date did not go that well
me and her used to date a bit in collage
she is cute and funny.... but we do not really have a spark
also, she is a bit too driven and materialistic for my taste... or maybe I am just a slacker.... I dunno

this was like... September?
 
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