So if Calvinism is true and my children were not given the ability to repent and believe I’ll only hate God on judgment day then I’ll forget all about it? And why would there even be a judgement day if everyone is only capable of repenting and believing if God allowed them to? We’re being judged according to whether or not God enabled us or not? Because that’s what it basically boils down to. If God chose you then you can’t fail to repent and believe and if He didn’t then you’re not capable of repenting and believing. So we’re being judged according to whether we were allowed to repent and believe. If Calvinism is true.
Any criteria you come up with to justify hating God is rooted in evil. It is you sitting on your self-made tin throne presuming to judge your Creator and demand He bow down before *you* . As exactly inspired by the first to presume to judge God - Lucifer/Satan Himself. And then lie about Him and perpetually tempt all of us to doubt His goodness ever since.
The very point of Jesus' mission here was to challenge us to concede that our righteousness (and ability to exercise mercy, grace, compassion and love) MUST exceed or at least match God's or else we are already doomed - just like Truth Himself (The Word) says we are.
So yes, does the Potter have rights over the clay - to make one for honor and another for dishonor? Yes! And we *must*, as an expression of our faith, profess that Jesus has sufficiently revealed the purity of God's love through His sacrifice to our *finite* minds - to warrant us declaring before all men that God is good and that we revere His Name above all - even our own lives.
Consider this. If *anyone* has had more right to judge God as unrighteous it is Jesus Christ - the ONLY one of us Who did not deserve God's full wrath. Yet Jesus kept His Word to His Father and to all of us - He held His faith even in the midst of the most cruel torture of body and mind on that cross - in Hell Himself - and made HIS final declaration of faith before all the earthly and heavenly hosts (and especially to the Accuser who tempted Him to bitterness to His last breath) - "FATHER, into Thy hands I commit my Spirit."
Jesus grants those of us who choose to receive His gift of faith to do likewise - enduring through it all till *our* last breath by doggedly following the voice of our Great Shepherd all the way through the valley of the shadow of death and beyond.
Having said all that, here is why we can ultimately have peace about it all while we're here. I guarantee that whoever hears the Gospel and chooses to believe will be saved - because He says so. He says He desires that none should perish - and He doesn't lie.
If we can't harmonize His Word and reconcile what appears to be opposing doctrines - tough cookies - He can and does in His Mind because He is the Author - and we ain't.
Therefore, if God indeed purposely blinds anyone's eyes preventing repentance - they are still responsible because they are somehow willfully choosing to remain blind and in darkness.
Why? It's not just their presumption to judge God alone. That is just their outward justification to hide the core motive of a desperately wicked heart - that only God Himself can see:
John 3:19-21 NKJV
"And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.”
This is why, when they do stand before Him, they still won't be able to con Him, and us, by touting their good works even done in His Name. Because He sees a heart devoted to eternally hating Pure Love Himself - even while gazing upon Him in His full glory. They will even be gnashing their teeth at Him (and all of us His children) from the pits of Hell - just like their father there with them.
Evil enough?
Can we therefore let our Righteous Father reign - and live in gratitude for His mercy and grace towards us, our brethren, and those who will come to Him through our testimonies of His goodness to them? Enough for us to abandon perpetual wrangling in our minds and eagerly beseech our Great Shepherd to teach us how to be fishers of men and enjoy the fruits thereof?
God bless! (And I mean that... towards all).