The act of MB starts early around 3 years of age. They will hump and rub just because it feels good, no difference than being tickled. It's a habit ingrained before puberty. Puberty creates sexual urges that so happen by nature to mix with the already habit of MB all children have. Because of these so called sexual urges that God make happen at age 12, we then call the act of MB sinful...it's silly.
What is worse is there are parents that actually punish children for only doing what is natural even before puberty? Obvious, young children with no sexual concept of yet have no clue what they are talking about, but suffer the emotional trauma of such stupidity. MB is already totally natural habit before puberty, why does it become so sinful because God created puberty.
Should God not then be blamed for making us have sexual thoughts and desire against our will? If not, then how does it become sinful when these thoughts mix with MB? You will say lust, but sexual thought and desire is not lust. If it is, then God created it. You will say he did, but we are to ignore these feelings until after marriage. Then why did God play such a cruel trick and place these thoughts in us at around age 12? It seems people think we must be asexual until after marriage, but
without sexual thought and desire, what force would drive us to marry?
Yes, we can sexually sin, when we do harm with the behavior. But calling what God placed in us sin is unbiblical. If you think lust is sexual thought and desire, then you are calling God sinful.
Teaching kids that sexual thought, MB and such is evil is the sin. You confuse their sexuality. You ingrain in their mind that sex is evil. That's the problem with many here.
The number one problem that Christian teens say they deal with is the fact they can't beat MB. I feel for those that have to deal with this unfounded guilt and the impossible burden it places on them.
God is against sexual immorality, not against the natural process that he has made. Sexual thoughts, desires and MB are part of that process and no where in the bible does it say different. Pulling a few verses and lumping all of sexual behavior with sexual immorality is unbiblical. Sadly that is what many do. They can't see the difference.
Stop being afraid of the way God made you. We were not created as married adults. Our fallen nature has nothing to do with our sexuality. With our nature, it can be right or wrong.