We are first and foremost created to fellowship with God, so make Him your focus. And He will take away that loneliness.
Adam had fellowship with God, and God said it was not good for him to be alone so, with God.. God still considered Adam alone
and God took away that loneliness by giving Adam a wife.
God also knows you need fellowship with other people, but if you prioritize Him and keep Him first, He will send other brothers and sisters into your life too.
Actually I found myself increasingly isolated due to health, mobility issues, poverty, and frankly even in church, I feel alone in a crowd. I'm not even sure I could convey what that means to someone else but it's the only terms I know to express the most familiar feeling I have.
I'm even allergic to dogs and cats, God does not even permit me to have pets for companionship.
So I have an intangible, invisible spirit as a companion, and a book. Neither of those can even give a hug when you need one.
But Daniel and his buddies never came across as unhappy with their lot. The Bible did say they made God their top priority and wouldn't eat the King's food because it was sacrificed to idols. They showed willing loyalty to the Lord.
Well it also didn't seem like very happy service.. more just resigned to it. It was their willingness to SUFFER for their faith and their God. But that does not make it not suffering.
On the subject of Nebuchadnezzar and Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, not only did the King make them Eunuchs so that they would be better servants, but he also gave them new names, and had them reeducated.
and in the view of eternity that Timtofly and many others seemingly yourself also purport.. what's the promises?
To not marry or be given in marrage and not seek to have spouses and children (made Eunuchs)
To be given a new name (Isaiah 56:5, Revelation 2:17), like the Hebrews were given new names by Nebuchadnezzar
and to be "changed" so that while now I hate singing, in eternity I'll want to do nothing but sing, and reeducated, as Nebuchadnezzar had the hebrews reeducated in the ways of the Chaldaeans.
See I hold a different view of Eternity, where I have been pointed in scripture is a new Earth, not a new Temple, where ALL THINGS are made new (Revelation 21:5-7), including relationships between men and women, including romantic relationships at that, including procreation and childbirth, made anew, different than we know it now, I do not know how it will work, but those things are NOT products of the fall to be corrected.
What I look forward to is:
Romans 8
18 For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.
19 For the earnest expectation of the creature waiteth for the manifestation of the sons of God.
20 For the creature was made subject to vanity, not willingly, but by reason of him who hath subjected the same in hope,
21 Because the creature itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God.
22 For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now.
23 And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
24 For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for?
25 But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it.
26 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
27 And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.
28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
29 For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
30 Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.
31 What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?
32 He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also [u[freely[/u] give us all things?
When I begin to believe most of you guys' views of eternity... I don't see glorious liberty, I see Nebuchadnezzar, and bondage as a eunuch in Babylon, brainwashed to love doing something I hate doing, and given a new identity that isn't really who I am, but an identity to make a better slave.
The crazy thing is, there's biblical evidence to point to that bondage eternity so it's easy to believe when people profess it, and even when they profess it in a positive light as you do, I see bondage and slavery in it, rather than liberty
You guys will emphasize service in the temple, and I will see there is no temple on the New Earth, because God Almighty and the Lamb themselves dwell on it.
The Song of Solomon isn't just about a human romance though. It's symbolic of the romance between the Lord Jesus and His bride.
Never mentions God once, and it is about romance, and well, I'm a man, Jesus is a man, romance doesn't exist between men.
Isaiah 65 is believed by many to be about the Millennial Age but there's some debate over that which then involves Matthew 22:30.
Isaiah 65 professes to be about the New Earth.