Thank you for "your" opinion on sex.
It's not "my" opinion. It's just my opinion. I have no idea what the quotation marks are for.
In any case, my opinion is supported by experience and scientific study. See
this article from a Canadian gynaecology and obstetrics organisation, which says that about 65% can't [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] from vaginal sex;
this article from Teenwire agrees.
This BBC article says that it's more like 75% of women.
When you have sex correctly the "good of it" happens quite naturally. That's my opinion.
Then you are hopelessly out of touch with female sexuality. This obsession with vaginal sex is indicative of a denial of women's sexual needs. Many women simply cannot experience [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] via penetrative sex. Most women require direct manual or oral stimulation of the [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] (or the use of a toy) to achieve [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. A lot depends on the individual shape and sensitivity of a woman's [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. Women are not all the same, so this is hardly surprising - yet many feel tremendous shame at not being able to achieve an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] through penetrative sex. It is attitudes like yours that perpetuate that shame.
I norticed though, that neither a [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] or the rectum has a clitorus or glans. Well, that work anyway.
I don't understand what this has to do with anything. [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] are one example of a range of toys and devices designed (!) to help women and men to enjoy themselves sexually. Some heterosexual couples use them; so do some lesbian couples and some gay male couples.
Anuses are a part of the human body which are surrounded with nerve endings, the stimulation of which many people find enjoyable. Some people are able to experience [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] from anal stimulation. The prostate is most easily stimulated through the wall of the rectum.
Sexual acts involving toys or anuses are some examples of the myriad ways in which human beings express their love and desire for one another. What beautiful diversity.
It's nice to see such an honest protrayal of queer (gay/lesbian) mindset from a self-desribed "queer." Like I've asserted, always sex acts to define the GLBT culture.
Excuse me, but what has my discussion of the existence of the [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] as suggesting that human sexual organs are not "designed" solely for the purpose of vaginal penetrative sex have to do with my sexual proclivities? I do not define myself by my [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. In fact, since you seem so interested in my sex life, you may be interested to know that it is not the main focus of sexual pleasure for me. I know, however, that it is for many, many women, and your ignorance of it and its function is typical, if I may say so, of an attitude towards sex which trivialises and marginalises the sexual experiences of women. It has nothing to do with my sexuality. My sexuality has given me experience of women's pleasure, it's true, but that's all that can be said to link the two things. I would feel this way about clitorises whatever my sexual orientation, firstly because I happen to have one, and secondly because I care about women and women's sexuality. I care about women being able to have fulfilling and happy sex lives.
Your obsession with my sexual orientation and my sex life is very strange. No one is linking my queerness with sex acts except you. I am presently in a heterosexual relationship. I am still queer. My queerness has nothing to do with sex acts. I was queer before I ever had sex with a woman, and I will continue to be so if I never have sex again.
I can understand your desire for sex, that makes sense, the non-theist thing doesn't.
I enjoy sex, like a lot of heterosexual people do. My non-theism has nothing whatsoever to do with my sexuality, but thanks for wondering.