BUT, and again I say BUT, IF a gentile comes into the MJ community they should recognize that they MUST leave and cleave ... as did Ruth....
Leave and cleave...to love. I can't love something and yet have an attitude of apathy towards it be that God, His Word or another person. The "she'll be right mate" "You're entitled to your opinion" attitude doesn't sit right with me on these subjects.
People should not expect to come in here, crap all over what we hold dear and love and expect us to go "Oh okay, whatever - each to their own". "We'll corrupt it, we'll twist it, we'll fix it to suit ourselves and you've got to turn the other check because you have to "love your neighbour"". Loving one's neighbour doesn't mean that one should put up with sin and corruption.
Only a little leaven infects the whole dough, only a little apathy on one little thing leads to apathy with everything.
People view things from their seat in life. Depending on the things you have seen and done in your life it will effect how you view things and how you express things.
I know it is the military in me that effects how I see things and how I express things, not what ethnic background I come from. . There is a culture there that you most likely do not understand though it effects the way I personally view and approach things. Just going for a run has a different mentality. You don't just run off on your own to get to the finish line leaving those behind you to eat your dust- you do it together. If that means having to stop every two minutes to puke, if that means having to slow down and encourage the one lagging behind, if it means tough love, even if that means having to carry someone so that all cross that line you do it. This is what I would do with people I didn't even like, whom I had no connection with other then being in the same unit. How much more would I do this with brothers and sisters in God?
There have been times when one little mistake, one misjudgement rather then following procedure has cost the lives of many men and women. An example is of a sailor who walked past a compartment and saw a fellow sailor on the ground unconscious. He didn't follow procedure of calling for help, doning a breathing apartus and tying a rope around his waist but went staight in to help his oppo. Bam! On the ground unconscious. It was a toxic gas leak. Another sailor walked by, did exactly the same thing. They didn't follow the manual and they died.
As a sailor in charge if I was to see someone going to do this my response wouldn't be one of "Oh well, each to their own". It would be "OY! STOP! Think about what you're doing. Procedure's there for a reason, to protect you, follow it or you could get yourself killed!"
This is just procedure to save the flesh. How could I approach procedure for the soul that is eternal (Torah) with apathy? So do I deliever it with vigor - you bet! I'd rather be that then lukewarm and apathetic about it.
How dare I be paissonate about Torah and God yet not be "jewish" is that right?