So? Take helium out where no time exists or different time and what, it turns into a brick of lead?
I think this sums up your position right here. Would helium turn into a brick of lead in deep space? There is no just no reason to believe that. We look at distant stars, they are made of hydrogen and helium as our own is (and other things but often predominantly hydrogen and helium). They are made of gases, as our own is. They flash and emit energy like our own. They shine the same color as our own and emit energy like our own. And there is no evidence that they are anything but stars like our own.
Its like saying, my house is made of brick, and the neighbors house is made of brick. There is no reason to take a default position that the neighbors house is actually made of helium, it just looks like brick because it exists in another location. And theres no reason to take a detault position of,
"i dont know what the house is made of because i havent touched it. Yes maybe i see the house with my eyes, but for all i know, some invisible spacetime barrier exists that makes helium houses look like brick houses". And we arent asking for too much when we say, you know, the star looks like its made of gases like our own star, it moves and sparkles and reacts and explodes like a star made of gases like our own, it emits energy like our own, therefore it is a star, not a giant ball of lead.
If you wont accept what your eyes see, im surprised you are even able to get in a car and drive down the street. Who knows what invisible things might happen in space time between you and the supermarket, you may disintegrate by walking outside. If a star that looks like gas, acts like gas, explodes like gas, is actually made of lead, then under this position, who knows what foreign peoples bodies are made of. They may be cyborgs. Have I been to australia and touched a kangaroo? No? Then for all i know it could be a cyborg kangaroo.
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Anyway, i think ill move on now. It is unfortunate, but dad, you appear to have lost your mind. And with that, ill be putting you on the ignore list and moving on. All the best.
If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck. Then most likely, it is a duck. It is unlikely that it is a tyrannosaurs rex in disguise. If stars in space look like stars, react like stars, move like stars etc., then they are most likely stars as we know them.